Why does it mean if a guy says you’re my property during sex?

[lexih_919]

So my boyfriend yesterday when him and I had sex was saying that I’m his and he likes to mark me to show others I’m his and that I’m his property. What does he mean by this

[PositiveFlight]

The beauty of honorable marriage is that a man and a woman both have equal claim over each other. But that is under the context that both willingly give of themselves to each other in which sex then solidifies and consummates that union.

But no one is ever each other’s property. Men and women should always have agency and free will. To claim that someone is property of another objectifies and dehumanizes to the worst degree. I would never tell someone who I love that I own her or that she’s my property. Property and objects aren’t served but rather are there to serve. In loving a woman I am willingly serving her, not having her serve me by demand.

[zeitgeist057]

He means he objectifies women, and you are an object that he owns. You are not a person to him, but a possession.

I see this as somewhat disrespectful, self-absorbed, and unfortunate, but some women are into it and want to be the owned possession of a man. It makes them feel loved.

[Daniela1982]

It means he is very possessive. These types of guys are bad news. Walk away while you get involved in any way, shape, or form. Possessive men have been known to kill women they can't have so run, don't walk, while you can.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Reminds me of my property law classes.

He can say something else.

[Anonymous]

Unless you were married and fully committed before sex, what he said means absolutely nothing and is mere fantasy at this point. Most couples have been so brainwashed by societies 'casual sex' and 'living in sin' way of doing stuff that they forget there is a reason for doing things the other way. Nothing truly good for you is ever promoted so fully by society...

[motownplayer2000]

That he thinks that you are his.. he owns you, he owns your pussy, he owns the air you breathe… thats a red flag in a since even though it may be something to do with him role playing. I would he careful and watch if he exhibits signs of jealousy out of the norm or possessiveness if he policies everything you do.. those are signs you need to get out

[Finchie40]

He wants you all to himself and doesn’t want other guys coming on to you , Most men out territorial over a girl he gives his heart to

[ProbablyClueless]

That just sounds Like he just carried away in the heat of the moment. If you are going to have sex, you really ought to get comfortable talking with your partners about this stuff. We can't read other people's minds.

[spartan55]

It means you need to end it and run. He is a domestic abuser starter kit.

[CarolineW]

It means it's time you found someone else who is not a control freak

[Anonymous]

It means he thinks of you as just what is between your legs and not as an equal in a relationship. Your an object he can claim ownership of, not a person.

[Andres77]

You fell for his lines and now you have some decisions to make

[Anonymous]

How was the sex?

[Yellovv]

He want to say you are belong to him..

[Bigjake1995]

The most I say is you feel so good

[Anonymous]

You are a real estate?

[zeitgeist057]

he's gonna build houses and a hotel on her and play Monopoly.

[Anonymous]

He means you're his private prostitute