Does this have any definition?

[Amara_09]

I have a friend who once told me

“ You can use me in whatever way”

What does that mean? I have also heard this before between 2 friends?

[RebelinSteel]

Possibly his sense of humour ‘oh god she can use me how she wants’ or he means really means it sexually and is submissive.

[Amara_09]

“ I am yours, use me however you want”

[Amara_09]

I should, I’ll try a kiss then I repeat what I was told

“ You said I can use you for as however I want”

[RebelinSteel]

Well it’s worth a try

[Liketotry]

There’s a song 🎶 about that, “Some people like to be used, some people like to use you” I may have got the lyrics backwards.

[IslaTheWitch]

Eurythmics "Sweet dreams"

[IslaTheWitch]

lol... g@g ffs... don't link texts like that!!!

[Liketotry]

@IslaTheWitch yes, thank you

[MrOracle]

"Some of them want to use you.
Some of them want to be used by you.
Some of them want to abuse you.
Some of them want to be abused..."

[Liketotry]

@MrOracle I remember it too

[Liketotry]

Thank you

[BoopBoopBeep]

You can have sex with me and do that dirty stuff you like.

[_Maya_]

Is that a threat?

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ I mean... NOW it is...

But I draw the line at that thing you do with skittles. No repeats of the Maldives incident.

[_Maya_]

@BoopBoopBeep after we found that M&Ms don't just melt in your mouth skittles are all I have to go on.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@_Maya_ gave taste the rainbow a whole new meaning though

[laly520]

I think that friend is a sub n asked to be used

[Amara_09]

I should use her then

[LiamS95]

Sounds like a friend with benefits situation.

[Amara_09]

We have not crossed the line. Lol

[LiamS95]

I just meant that term kind of falls in that area

[Amara_09]

Do you think a lonely person would say such a thing?

I have suspected the clingy behavior to touch and feel someone’s body out. Playful behavior like we are wrestling on bed all on top of each other………. it could also mean that the person is comfortable with you as their friend.

Humans tend to take words apart when it probably has no deep meaning to it and you just never know what is in the heart of the person when they say things such as this …. maybe in that moment there was a deep meaning behind it…….

[LiamS95]

Some words can be more shallow or deeper then we think.

[RedInnocent68]

Job reference? 🤔😉😂

[Amara_09]

Lol , I should

[Roudyrebel8]

One way to find out

[InspireGlow678]

Be dominant

[Amara_09]

I am…. this flattered me in a very inappropriate way since I have a dirty mind but she is a friend.

[InspireGlow678]

Awesome, sounds perfect 😊

[Amara_09]

Wow, now I am going to think sexually of my friend. Thanks for the encouragement

[InspireGlow678]

It happens a lot, there's nothing wrong with feeling that. It's good to acknowledge your feelings

[Amara_09]

Oh feelings……. now you left my area of expertise

[InspireGlow678]

See if she'd like to sleep with you, you can make your fantasies real

[Amara_09]

Lol you are asking me to do it because you are imagining that in your head aren’t you? ….. I never said I was going to sleep with her lol

[InspireGlow678]

No, I'm saying if you want if you want to do it, there's nothing wrong with doing it. If you don't want to, then don't.

[riverrat3]

Sexual

[Amara_09]

This is a friend, you think they want to be sexual with me? I should ask her then ………lol, give her a surprise kiss first then when she reacts , I will say

“ You said I can use in whatever way so I used you for a kiss”

[Amara_09]

Tell her she said that I can use her in whatever way

[riverrat3]

Go for it

[Amara_09]

Not you encouraging my evil idea😂😂………. Oh I like people who push me to do bad stuff

[riverrat3]

Do you like girls

[Amara_09]

I have never thought about it.

[Amara_09]

I am straight

[riverrat3]

I enjoy encouraging people to try things

[Amara_09]

But if it’s someone that I am close with, I don’t mind what we do ……. it’s like I have no mindset to judge

[Amara_09]

What you are encouraging me to do……is evil 😭😭now I am going to be notorious for using my friend , like I am actually out to get them

[riverrat3]

Do like you said, kiss her

[Amara_09]

I will……I will grab her ass and kiss her. Then I will act like nothing I did is surprising 😂😂…. oh this is a good idea

[riverrat3]

Use her, have fun, please her

[Amara_09]

I will thoroughly see to it that it’s executed

[riverrat3]

Let me know how it goes

[riverrat3]

Do you need encouragement with anything else

[Amara_09]

Her words alone have given me a heads up……. but first, I will have clean for me and run some errands..😭😭

[riverrat3]

Use her in whatever way

[Amara_09]

👍🏾