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So there was a spider on the wall (the biggest spider I'd ever seen) so I internally start freaking out and hurry to tell him, (I knock on the door and tell him about the spider) and the first thing he says is "so what im I supposed to do just hop outta the shower and get it?" And let me yell u it was the most annoyed insensitive tone I'd ever heard him muster up... by time he's outta the shower he gets the spider and puts it outside. Later that day I bring up to him how I didn't like how he spoke to me and that it was rude, he continues to tell me that it was childish of me to bother him in the shower and that I should have waited to say anything to him until he's out of the shower, that im a grown women afraid over a spider and that im too emotional and need to think first before I do and say things to him... how am I suppose to know what I should say or so so it doesn't annoy him or aggravate him... he's actually like this outside of the slider incident... like if he's on his phone a lot and I try to get his attention he will tell me to chill out or ask why I'm acting like that... it's really hurtful and I feel like I'm walking on eggshells and can't be myself because I'm afraid he will react aggressive or insensitive... what do you guys think?

My parents and grandma have met my boyfriend and I’ve met his entries family. From my end tho, my younger sister won’t and refuses to come out and meet my boyfriend…. my boyfriend is a funny type of a guy and he sent a funny voice message to my sister (a funny Donald Duck voice) as a joke to get her attention and she took it the wrong way - but personally I think it was just an excuse that she’s using cuz she’s a difficult person when it comes to socializing in general.

does it look bad on my sister / is it obvious that she has issues if she doesn’t come out to meet? Or was my boyfriend wrong to send a funny voice message?

He went out on sat and got a new Instagram follower. I know he didn’t sleep with a girl that night. He was meant to come over Saturday but used the excuse I annoyed him and he was too pissed off. He did leave in a mood

But on Monday and Tuesday he always goes to the gym with his friend and he wasn’t there. Was he away seeing whoever from sat

He keeps swearing to me he’s not talking to anyone from sat. He does massively struggle to get female attention but he is willing to settle.

He then was supposed to come up last night and said I’d pissed him off so never did. Then never went to the gym again

Is he away seeing someone or am I overthinking. He does go see his friends outside of the friend he goes to the gym with but he always makes time for the gym. His friend does occasionally not post him in the gym photos but he recorded himself so he wasn’t here. He does go to his friends band practice a lot too but why say yoyll come over if you were doing that?