Lately my boyfriend has been acting so werid, he bought himself this smelling colon stuff and he says he's done it for me but also he's been always on his phone when spending time with me, I get it he has clients but he's always on neighborhood app and Facebook market place, so in the past I've always been on my phone checking messages, emails etc but I stopped bc he said he doesn't like when I check anything on my phone so I stopped and when I'm with him I check the time but that's it I either shut off my phone or leave it somewhere but I'm not on it, but he's always on it so anyway, we go to this dollar store down the street to get snacks and there's this lady she's older then us maybe mid 40s maybe 50s and she very pretty for her age she actually looks younger but anyway my boyfriends the type of guy that needs attention for everything on a side note u call him out on his flirting he says he's either not doing it or throws it back at you but anyway they have this bell and ever since they built that store he always rings it nonstop and she playful hits him or says knock it off and they do this infront of me, and it's to the point where he now knows where she lives and what she drives but anyway today this bright ass blue car goes buy and I'm like wow that's a bright car and he goes wth? Then a couple mins go by we go past the dollar store and he says out loud that's clairs (ladies name by the way) and I look confused bc yesterday she had her very old vehicle so I was like that couldn't be hers bc we saw her last night so tonight ends and for shits and giggles I wanted to see if he was right so I drove by her house and there u have it her new car and right now I'm so confused bc how did he know? Like he has to have some type of communication with her right? I even told him how did he know and he said We passed that car earlier today and it looked like her but I don't know but then i seen it at the dg and was like "maybe it was?" But he straight up told me it was?
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He already knew about the car or when he saw it he wouldn't been surprised like "was that clair" he knows too much about her for someone just being the dollar tree lady, cause if he doesn't have communication with her then he sure spends a lot of time at that dollar tree and without you cause you would've heard their conversation and you would've known this, at the very least he's stalking her social media page
The funny thing is she doesn't have a social media at all
So he has to be at least txting her or like u said spending so much time bc last night he wanted go go to dg and I'm like why bc the only thing he bought was cotton candy and I'm like wtf so he wanted to go then randomly changed his mind of naw?
It's definitely suspicious, you can try speaking to her if she's seen your boyfriend that you've been looking for him, if she worries she will either tell you their last meet up time or try calling him straight up right infront of you lol
I’m gonna make it very simple for you.
If you have this level of untrust and doubt towards the person you’re in a relationship with, for your own sake just end it.
Think of how less stress and anxiety you’ll have not worrying of him doing wrong behind your back vs. how you are right now.
I've never had this level of untrust before intill he started saying some fucked up shit like this girl that we know is dating our friend and she was so sweet and nice and he said back in his old days he would want to go after quiet nice girls but he didn't bc he didn't want to destroy them then proceeds to say well now I do bc that's how I got u like wtf?
Or compliments her like how she speaks when spoken to or is quiet when I do the same but calls me argumented or I'm out spoken, impolite, disrespectful
Plus way before we were dating I was his friend his wingman helping him get girls Yadayada and then we got serious but he couldn't demand me anything bc we weren't serious then dating its like delete this, don't talk to this person, your my slave< literally told me this I was his slave cook dinner, do laundry, clean the house like dude, he calls me out on stupid shit when he does the same shit and I call him he says u don't dare demand me
Seems like you already made up your mind but haven’t acted on it yet