we’ve been dating almost 6 months. Currently we are in an odd situation. He is placed on 45 days home arrest following excessive travel out of state although wasn’t doing anything wrong just visiting friends. He was renting the house out but is required to stay there. He agreed to not terminate the lease if they would give him one of the bedrooms.
It works fine for everyone except he doesn’t want to bring me inside when the other people are there which is common since they live there. The other day he said I could come over after work. We were texting about something else and then when I asked what time to come over he didn’t respond all night. It hadn’t been the first time he’d failed to follow through on plans and it really hurt my feelings he didn’t at least tell me something changed.
i sent him a voice message the next morning explaining the whole situation and the history of occurrences in our relationship and how it makes me feel. He responded that he loved me and takes 100% responsibility for that night and understands why im mad. He said that he can respect and understand what I’m saying but that he’s honestly his mindset hasn’t been in the right spot and he’s all over the place.
He still call me beautiful says he loves me and when I text him will say I was just thinking about you. He did fail to follow through on another evening this last week but said he’d let me k ow when the other couple left which I assume they never did.
does he seem to just be in a tough spot with the shit in his life rn and just needs time and patience to get through this thing
