boyfriend and I been together going on 4 years, he wasn’t a big sexual guy and I initiated things a lot but he enjoyed. Lately as we progress into about to move in phase after school is done with and we’ve adjusted into this phase where we are happy and yeah. When we first started dating sex life was constant of course as we always did it in his car because that was the only place we could. Now I go over a lot to his house on weekends so we do it there. We see one another on the weekends, I have noticed he doesn’t like to do it in his car often anymore and has said no three times in our entire relationship at night when we are in his car, his car is a total mess so given having sex in his car is work. So I’ve asked him before hey anything up because you rejected he said no I’m tired at night when you ask ok sure we always have sex when we see another what’s a few times in an entire 4 year relationship. Yesterday he said his car was dirty so he didn’t want to and trust me his car is a hot mess this so I was like okay sure I think he saw I was bothered so he was like fuck it let’s do it anyways and I was like no it’s cool now. Anyways he stays with his mom and she left todah for a few days on a trip now I’m thinking he’s saving it for someone else and I’m spiraling he’s mad at me already for demanding to see he’s in school proof. Help is this sexual behavior of his normal? I assume he’s not into car sex anymore because only times he’s said no was then
Should I be worried about our sex life?
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Old living together and never will marry. If you are good with that 🤷🏻♂️ You done credit and criminal on each other before sharing living space ⁉️
After 4 years in a relationship with the same girl, sex isn't as exciting as it was in the beginning.
There were times when I would go weeks without having sex, but it didn't mean I was doing it with someone else.
It's pretty typical in any long term relationship for sex to be put on the back burner. I wouldn't worry about it.
If it seems like he's absolutely done with sex, no matter how hard you try, that could be a problem. But it still doesn't necessarily mean he's getting it somewhere else
i assume he was the one who asked you out, hit on you