My name is Elise and I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. We've had many ups and downs during our time together but it is evident that we both care about each-other. He gets along with my family and I feel that I get along with most of his family, as well. This past Saturday was his sister's graduation party from high school and I really wanted to be there but I couldn't because of a school conflict. I got her a card and 2 gift cards to say congratulations. Anyways, my boyfriend and his dad were talking at the party and his dad asked him if he felt like he was settling. His dad told him that he knows he might have been in the past and wanted to make sure he wasn't doing that with me. Not to toot my own horn, but I am a pretty capable individual. I am currently a Special Education teacher and am getting my master's in school counseling. Although my boyfriend is successful, he did drop out of high school and got his GED. He has now been working in construction for the past 7 years. He does well for himself so I'm proud of him, but I do not believe in any way that he is settling for me. I think we both have things to offer and that should be recognized by others. Anyways, my question is.. should I be worried about his dad saying that? Should I re-think our relationship (we have been having many arguments lately and I'm not sure if we're meant to be)? Any input would be helpful. Thank you!!
Should I be worried about my relationship?
