I'm getting worried about our relationship what should I do?

[Anonymous]

He might need to move away back to his home country because he has just finished uni and not sure what he will do for a job. I'm starting to panic a little as I have just turned 30 and I will never have a family of my own as he might break up and ill be back single running out of time

What should I do to feel better about all of this

[Anonymous]

Wait so you're telling me he went to college to specialize in a field he doesn't know what he wants to do? What was the point in going to college then? I mean I understand the first two if you're just figuring it out, but to finish and you don't know? Are you sure he's the right guy to raise a family with? He seems like he's just free floating in emotions and doesn't really care about you or his future.

I understand you're desperate, but I don't know about this guy. You don't have to not have a family. There is the modamily app you can use which is co-parenting app. Non-romantic parenting. You just find someone who's well educated and financially stable and raise a child with them. So it's not too late for you if you want to. But I would say do it in your early 30s because you don't want to be 50 or 60 dealing with a teenager.

So you can still get a family if you want.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Y73S0naZ_oQ

[Asker]

He hasn't mentioned about breaking up and he's quite a direct kind of guy

[Asker]

But no not desperate I'm just sad cause I really like him and nicest guy I've had

[justEric]

You're still too young to worry about not having a family. The situation might put in risk your current relationship, but it's not like you'd be doomed to loneliness if you break up, actually a lot of people are still single at this age nowadays

[Asker]

He didn't mention breaking up or anything

[Shayyyy1]

Uh sperms banks exist if all u want is to have a family by staying with him.

[Wise4myage]

Realize you still have time to raise a family.

[Asker]

I wonder what ge will do if he roes have to go back with me

[Wise4myage]

Discuss that with him.

[Asker]

he's quite a straight forward direct guy he just says straight away maybe he wants to keep seeing me

[Waldoe]

marry him and Move...