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Honestly it was my mistake. I entered in a bunch of cash without counting it first. I usually always count it but of course this was the ONE time I didn't bother because the machine always counts it and is never wrong anyways.

After I inserted it all, it said it had trouble counting it. It counted $123 and they needed to know how much else was inserted. I misread what they were asking (there was also people behind me and the transaction was taking forever so I kinda panicked and wanted to finish asap) so I just entered $240 as an estimate of how much cash it was all together.
So they ended up depositing the $123 PLUS the $240. And now that I can take a moment and logically think about how much money I put in, I think $240 was also too high of an estimate 😬😬

so I fucked up and got an extra $100+ put into my account. Honestly I could use the money because I’m struggling out here 😭

however I’m also not trying to get into any trouble over a small amount of money.

My girlfriend is really close with her sister, but I'd wager they haven't gotten as close as we have, if you catch my drift.

So while one is clearly more intimate, which one takes precedence? We also spend every waking moment together and have for the past 3 years, while she sees her family only occassionally. Yeah, there's a blood tie, but she admits that her family is really rude and demeaning and she doesn't like spending too much time with them.

For my situation, her sister is extremely rude and just plain mean, so I don't want to spend time with her. Girlfriend is upset that I don't want to see her sister.

But, they are still family. And while we could break up, family is more reliable, sometimes.

I have decided to minimize my time around her family as much as possible, as they are a net-negative to my life. But, I fully support her spending whatever time she wants with them. I'm just wondering how much leeway I should have to bitch about it in the event it damages our relationship. Freedom of choice, sure, but none of us get to decide freedom of outcome resulting from our actions. Does family obviously come first? Or does your romantic partner of 3 years?

I still drive too fast, listen to my music too loud, an drink too much coffee. I have made a few mistakes, and had great success. I don't take myself too seriously, but don't think I don't have my act together, cause I seriously do.

I love outdoor activities, from paddling, biking to hiking. I am not at my all time best , but in excellent health, far from unfit with good longevity genes.

Truth is ladies, my kids are grown, and I am an untethered free spirt. So let's get up and out together.