Is something there?

[Anonymous]

okay so i (21F) have this coworker (42M) & the day we met, we clicked. i believe we've been working together since may/June. everyone calls us the "iconic duo," or "partners in crime," and i've always had a little crush on him. recently i've noticed him being a little more flirty, touchy (mostly my back,
sometimes my hands), always finding a way to be close to me or just always around, he also likes to sneak up & scare me. we're always in each others personal space, as close as we can get without being obvious bc we're at work, the other night we spent an hour talking about nothing in the parking lot after work. we work in the same building but on different "units" (on opposite sides of a locked
door) most of the time, but i've been on light duty this last month so we've been watching movies together when work calms down, literally every time we work together. the other night we're watching a movie & out of the corner of my eye i noticed he was repeatedly glancing at me, it's a movie i hadn't seen and in my mind, i'm thinking "maybe he's making sure i'm watching the movie?" I don't know?
now that i think of it he does it even when we've both seen the movie. i feel like there might be something there but I don't know if i'm reading into it too much.. what y'all think?

[DJB72]

He's watching you. Not the movie.

I went to see a movie with a girl a few years ago. I missed the cues. I hate horror - turns out she did too, but she picked the film so she had an excuse to hold my hand, then my arm, and occasionally bury her face in my shoulder.

I'm slow like that.

Most guys aren't.

If he's single then ask him out. See what happens.

[Asker]

yeah we both are & the cues are there between the both of us. i’m hoping he asks me so i don’t have to🤣. he’s bought me dinner a few times & never lets me pay him back or return the favor. i’ve noticed him letting off cues that he likes me & i’ve been sending them back so hopefully something comes out of it.

[bigmarty36]

Everyone has opinion mine ok of its just a sex relationship no committing no presents no nothing just sex. For a relationship no never work ye are at different stages of life twice your age sex probably all he wants anyway. That's my take on it

[Asker]

i thought this too. but knowing him, he doesn’t really seem like the type to just want sex, but i don’t really see it going anywhere bc like you said, the age difference & being at different stages in life. thank you!

[bigmarty36]

You have to follow what you think but don't let him use you for anything including sex. Twice your age is to much i think.

[Andres77]

He's not watching the movie

[Asker]

what’s he watchin then🤣

[Andres77]

You, goofy!