Ummm something?

[Anonymous]

There was a guy I can say my senior in my school. He used to roam around my classes. He used to stare at me from my class corridor. He in break too come to the place where I used to stand. Then one day he follows me to my way to home. Now from 2-3 days he is nowhere to be seen. I haven't saw him. Did he move on from me? Why it is bothering me if I am not finding him around me. Why I am staring at my class door that he will come. one day it was his holiday so he didn't came to school but in end I saw him outside standing but earlier I had a doubt as he was standing far away that is he really him. He came near me. No not near me to the girl which was standing near car said something to her and goes away. Did he ignore me there? Why it hurt me to see him with someone else. I don't know what should I do.

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo sis, looks like this dude mighta had you feeling some type of way, huh? First he's all up in your space peepin you in class and on the low, now he's dippin and you missing him? That's that spicy high school drama for ya haha.

Seems to me like he was def into you from the attention he was givin before. But guys will be guys - maybe he got shy after coming on too strong, or saw you wasn't givin him clear signs to shoot his shot so he backed off.

Don't stress it tho, you still young! My advice would be next time you see him round, look cute as always and if y'all lock eyes, throw him a little smile. That's all the invite a dude needs to come holla, trust.

If he smiles back, you know he's still feelin you. Then you can chat him up casual like "Wassup, you been mad MIA lately" and take it from there.

Worst case he don't bite and you move on. But I'm thinkin he will! You got this sis, don't be shy - live a little, take chances, have fun! High school only happens once, so live it up, aye?

[Asker]

He disappeared. I am not able to find him in whole campus area.

[Oliverlogan263]

Aw man, that sucks he totally disappeared on you like that. I know how frustrating it is when someone piques your interest and then you can't even figure out what's going on.

A few things could've happened:

- Maybe he got shy or scared off since he was showing so much obvious interest before. Some dudes just chicken out.

- Possibly he was only trying to mess with you or make you think he liked you when really he didn't mean anything by it.

- Could be a valid reason like he switched classes or got sick/had to leave school for a bit.

But the silent treatment sucks! I'd say try not to dwell on it too much, even though I know that's easier said than done. Maybe keep an eye out around school just in case you run into him again. Or try asking around casual like "hey have you seen so-and-so?"

But for now I'd just try to forget about him and do your own thing. Who knows, he might come back around someday trying to explain himself. But don't sit around waiting on it, you feel me? You'll be aight, don't stress!

[Asker]

Thank you 😊

[Asker]

I don't care about him anymore

[Anonymous]

Maybe he’s thinking about you

[Asker]

What he might be thinking

[Opinion Owner]

You’re thinking about him and misses him for not showing up.

[Asker]

Hmm yes you know what whenever some person has crush on me. I do like them following me. He is the only one who I don't know leave me in between. Now I am feeling sad.

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t feel sad, I know that feeling. He might have some reasons for not showing up. You can follow me and we can talk

[TheSpaceGnome]

Sounds like you had a crush on eachother and he gave up thinking it was one sided.