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I feel like if a guy says it to a girl, people wouldn't consider it that, but if a girl said that to a guy, people probably would say that.

Basically, girls in their physical prime (18-24), romance and fun with the men they truly want. After many pump and dumps from top 20% of males she hits the epiphany stage. The epiphany stage is realizing those guys won't commit long term to her and she is unable to compete with younger girls when it comes to securing a LTR with guys she truly wants. So a lot of girls cope and begin telling themselves they want a nice, loving caring beta male that has a nice job.

They then begin selectively looking in their friend zone, men around them and on dating apps for the best provider and start looking at marriage/relationship like a business agreement. Fun goes out the window, she'll pressure u into committing to her, she'll be heavily critical of your job, cash flow, house etc.

This person (25F) and I (23M) have been talking. She works as a supervisor at my nearest grocery store where I live. During the many times we've seen each other very rarely will she smile or initiate a "hi" (but I'm not saying that doesn't totally exist). Most of the time I go out of my way to chat with her. I know some things about her via the answers she gave me to my questions. She's a Gemini, I'm a Capricorn. But that's pretty much the only thing I know personally about her. She didn't even ask about my last name, what ethnicity I am, or my phone number or social media info. (She knows very few things about me other than the fact that I used to work at Whole Foods and that I am now taking online school.) I recorded a few TikTok videos jokingly talking about how I met this girl and made some jokes about a particular, really cranky guy from a commercial that sells pillows. I told her jokingly that I was his godson, she said, "Oh yeah! I remember you!"

But lately, she's kinda been ghosting me, limiting to just short chit-chats. I don't think she's all that interested. She's likely lost all interest in me. Even today my aunt honked at me as I was JUST going to talk to this girl, but she didn't even notice me or the car honking.

I did ask if she's down for the gym or the movies, she said while she appreciates me asking her out, she cannot go out.

With that said, I gave her some flowers/roses on Mother's Day and she really appreciated it. But she didn't say anything when I hid a Valentine's Day card inside with some chocolates in a bag.

Sometimes I feel like an a—hole for not going out of my way to talk to her today. But few days ago I was exiting the store, she was just glancing at me for a second and didn't even do or say anything. I feel left out, excluded, psychologically burned out because of her betrayal. She acted so f—king nice to me.