Am I a nice guy or am I a manipulator to girls?

[Anonymous]

I lie and give compliments to girls, saying they have nice eyes, are pretty, and cute.

I act like im intrested in what they have to say when im not

When they dont give me what i want i am rude

I go on dates with girls like i want a relationship, but in reality i just want sex

I have only been on one date though

The main objective of what i do is to have sex with them

[provokeesmokee]

Stop trying to seem nice, then. Just straight up be honest about your goal being sex.

What you're doing is like shopping for a house when you intend to rent hop.

Doesn't make sense and you're not gonna find what you're looking for.

Plenty of women just want casual sex. So advertise yourself accurately and you'll get rejected less.

Your approach is old and known. No wonder you don't get dates, you have red flags hanging out your nostrils and ears when you lie. Women spot that from miles away.

You're the That Guy Nice Guy who probably has or had a "way of the blade" edgelord phase.

[Asker]

I will start asking for sex or telling them what i want.

[Cynicaldreamer]

"The main objective of what i do is to have sex with them..." You know damn well you're a manipulator 🙄

You're purposely saying what a woman wants to hear to get her in bed with no meaning behind it.
People like you make me sick, and are one of the main reasons I have trust issues dating... good grief.

[lightbulb27]

you're not nice, you are a liar and a cheat.

you are very sick and should get help to resolve your emotional issues before you do damage to yourself or another. That be the bravest thing you've ever done.

[artgorgeous]

How is this not obvious to you? Why you feel that you even need to ask such a question?

[chrissykerdock]

no you never seemed the least bit interested in me

[LiamJHayden]

You are not a nice guy, you're a "nice guy." Most women over 21 will see right through the act.

[Asker]

you mean a fake nice guy

[Ironic_Method]

I mean sometimes I just want sex, but I have the decency to let them know that.

[Asker]

Sometimes you got to fake a relationship in order to get it

[Ironic_Method]

Or... here me out... you could not? Get a fuckbuddy if that's what you want. Plenty of girls out there looking for NSA fun.

[Asker]

Makes sense

[Anonymous]

Bruh I think the answer is pretty obvious.
Here's my completely useless 2 more cents: Stop doing this.

[Asker]

am i a nice guy

[Opinion Owner]

If you're pretending to be genuinely interested in them just to have sex with them then that's really not my idea of nice.

[Asker]

makes sense

[Jmmmfi4]

You sound like me