So I told this guy friend of mine I had feelings for him months ago
He doesn’t feel the same way and that’s okay
Tho recently we had a fight (i mean he was fighting, i never got angry, i was just sad) because I got upset about him doing all of his pda one night with a girl he meet a couple days prior and it wasn’t even a serious thing between them, yk just one of those just because thing
And I told him that that wasn’t very nice of him
Cause he was there with the group of friends I was out with for like half an hour so I think it could have been avoidable for that little span of time
And I didn’t told him that he couldn’t, I just told that him that he could have done less
I didn’t rage, I was just communicating that he hurt me
And he got mad
Because he said that I’m his friend and I can’t take it out on him randomly
Now he doesn’t want to be friend with me anymore because he said that I bring drama to his life
What do you think? Was I wrong for what I did? I know I don’t have the right to be upset about his dating life but he’s always done this stuff to me, like sending me picture of the hickeys a girl gave him (this was like a week after I confessed), always talking to me about how much he likes a girl, even like intimate stuff he had with them, etc even tho I never ask about those stuff because I know that of course it would hurt me
I don’t know really, let me know your thoughts
(Sorry for eventual bad English)
He doesn’t feel the same way and that’s okay
Tho recently we had a fight (i mean he was fighting, i never got angry, i was just sad) because I got upset about him doing all of his pda one night with a girl he meet a couple days prior and it wasn’t even a serious thing between them, yk just one of those just because thing
And I told him that that wasn’t very nice of him
Cause he was there with the group of friends I was out with for like half an hour so I think it could have been avoidable for that little span of time
And I didn’t told him that he couldn’t, I just told that him that he could have done less
I didn’t rage, I was just communicating that he hurt me
And he got mad
Because he said that I’m his friend and I can’t take it out on him randomly
Now he doesn’t want to be friend with me anymore because he said that I bring drama to his life
What do you think? Was I wrong for what I did? I know I don’t have the right to be upset about his dating life but he’s always done this stuff to me, like sending me picture of the hickeys a girl gave him (this was like a week after I confessed), always talking to me about how much he likes a girl, even like intimate stuff he had with them, etc even tho I never ask about those stuff because I know that of course it would hurt me
I don’t know really, let me know your thoughts
(Sorry for eventual bad English)
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Hey, girl. I don't think you did anything wrong here. It's perfectly normal to feel sad and a bit hurt after admitting your feelings for a friend. And it seems strange that he would send photos of his hickeys or talk about intimate moments with other girls knowing that it would make you uncomfortable.
It sounds like he wasn't very considerate of your feelings and didn't take your feelings into account. I see nothing wrong with you communicating that he hurt you and asking him to stop doing that. You deserve better treatment from someone you consider a friend.
he over reacted but let him go and move on