I think it's a tad bit unfair to shame anyone for anything. Say a smoker or a drinker who are addicted. Both for different reasons mostly likely and you have to fix the addiction which last I checked isn't easy. Add eating disorders or conditions like hypothyriodism, and losing weight is far from black and white.
So onto weight. The lady with the small amount of stonach fat is indeed curvy. Bust to waist to hip is a curve although there is some fat there and typically for bustier women, some stomach fat will come with it but its not unattractive or unhealthy. If she was larger yes it would be unhealthy but she seems fine to me. The stationary weight of people varire by genetics and environment so that might be hers who knows.
Onto the mothers. Now I'm no mother myself but I think that after having a baby grow inside of me (Not all pregnancies east, in fact most aren't) and popping out a watermelon to then raise such beautiful watermelon (lol) all of which are not easy you would expect to
Being from a Scandinavian country (north europe), the average women is much skinnier here, and we see Americans that try to normalise being fat as completely insane and plain stupid. As an example we are 30 people in my class, and maybe 1 or 2 are just a bit overweight.
I feel like it's only in America that people try and make it "ok" and say that fat people are "curvy" when really they have so much fat on their bodies.
Where I'm from it's become more and more of a trend to eat healthily and most young people almost never eat fast food - it's also seen as kind of disgusting.
Being fat is unhealthy, and therefore it's obviously unattractive for the majority of people, end of discussion.
I do agree with you!!! we all should alway think about our health... I was fat... with a lot of issues... the worst was bladder leakage... that luckily has stopped when I defenitly lost a lot of weight.
so girls... dont get fat!
I think that when it's a result of bad habits and laziness people should be ashamed, in the same way they'd be ashamed if they look like shit because they couldn't be bothered to wear clean clothes and shower.
Want to hear something crazy? even fit people get shamed, those stupid gym douchebag meatheads and fake instagram models that live (10 hours a week lol) at the gym and are so obsessed and unbalanced
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Basically body shaming is wrong.
Being too skinny is not good either. One has to maintain their ideal body weight, prescribed by the physician and not the modelling industry. Getting my point?
I see some 'fat' girls around who are trying really hard to lose weight but still they are target of jokes and snide comments... How wrong is that?
I see some skinny women who are criticised for being skinny... It's so wrong.
No one has right to make snide remarks on someone's body shape.
But we should not forget that being fat and being extremely skinny is unhealthy.
A fat person should lose weight. Not because it looks bad. It's what media feeds you, that fat people look bad.. This person should lose weight because he/she wants to live a healthier life.
Absolutely. I don't think anyone is trying to argue that it's great to be morbidly obese, unless they're insane. Being healthy is important, for a lot of reasons. But that doesn't make body shaming okay. In addition, there is a big difference between being seriously overweight and simply not having the perfect body. The photos of the two moms with their kids that you posted? That's completely disgusting. Sure, if you're a stay at home mom with plenty of time to exercise and take care of yourself, you can look like a supermodel even after three kids, no problem. But not everyone is in that position. Many moms are busy, they're working, they have crazy schedules, they're juggling tons of different responsibilities and they're under a lot of stress. When you're raising children, your abs aren't always your top priority. And that is 100% okay.
we do need to stop normalising and celebrating obesity as a normal eay of life.
Shaming someone is wrong, yes, man or woman. I don't know their life and personal history to judge them. It could be a medical issue, due to medication, genetic, or yes an eating issue. Being obese is unhealthy, that is fact. But I'd rather use positive reinforcement to help motivate, then shame someone.
Any kind of body shaming is wrong. And being obese IS unhealthy. Thing is, people don't care about health. They care about what's pleasing to their eyes. At the end of the day that's what it's really about.
Agreed, obviously.
What I don't get is why you're directing this at "Ladies" specifically. Like it's only women who can be overweight or obese. 🙄
This clearly isn't about health otherwise it wouldn't just be directed at women. This is clearly an attempt to shame fat women. It's just as bad for a man to to be overweight so the onky reason just to direct this at women is misogyny.
Fat shaming is wrong and been fat is unhealthy. It's no ones business if you're fat. It's like a Heath condition, they don't go shaming you because you have an infection. Some people can't help been fat.
Having belly fat means you're not curvy? Um, excuse you.
Body shaming is 1000% wrong. No way around it. If you believe being obese is unhealthy, that’s a different and separate belief.
You say your against fat shaming but then post these type of meme pictures?
fat shaming is good. Shame people doing a bad thing until they stop doing said bad thing.
I don't see how any one could disagree with that statement.
Completely agree
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