Search Results: looks, attractive

I saw this happen a lot when I was younger. Admittedly I would sometimes get jealous/frustrated when an attractive woman choose a lesser attractive man over me just because he was “really funny”. And these men were also mediocre at other aspects in their lives (work, hobbies, etc.). Some of them were bums and/or scum bags.

Then I got older/mature and I shifted my position to “well I have to give credit where credit’s due”. If I saw an average looking guy pull a hot woman then I had a “good for you man” attitude. If I saw an attractive woman date some abusive asshole then I had “well you are going to get what you signed up for” attitude as well. And when these women got burned I refused to give them a shoulder to cry if they had the nerve to come crying to me about it.

But now I believe men are being judged more harshly by women on their looks more then ever before. Our digitized society has pushed it with social media and dating apps. But they some of them are just as judgmental as guys used to be (or worse). The only exception would be if the guy has money and/or fame.

I'm not sure if I can pick a clear winner, because each decade has their strengths and weaknesses. Today isn't too bad, but I actually think straight hair isn't as attractive as wavier or even slightly curly hair (depending on the women of course), which is why I like the hairstyles of say the 70s, or the early half of the 20th century. I like the classic styles of the 50s. I think the fashion for women in the 50s-60s in general was so classy, and not as obsessed with being 'sexy' like today. So overall I will go with the 1940s-1950s going by fashion icons like movie stars, models, other famous ladies.

Worst have to say would be the 80s. Not a fan of women having haircuts like David Bowie or extreme frizziness with the help of hairspray lol. The clothing. etc was just too far out.