Search Results: trying again with a guy

28F, maybe you other women my age don’t have this issue. I know I’m not a 10 but I’m told I’m cute/pretty & never get attention from quality guys in person. I get it every once in a while from the guys you don’t want, I’ve been told in the past that I’d get looked at but the guys never did anything about it (and sometimes those were actually the guys I’d consider). I’m on and off dating apps, on there I get the matches & msgs but it just doesn’t work out: I experience the typical ghosting, fizzling out, taking too long to reply etc. There were some times when one of us would admit we weren’t feeling it & while I was guilty of this sometimes, I just figured if I was really attractive I wouldn’t be having this issue. I’ll add that I’m reserved & not very friendly, also on the lower end when it comes to sex drive (which isn’t that uncommon for a woman). Don’t think those play a big part but figured I’d bring it up, I just think it’s kind of unfair & at the point where I’m feeling even less of an urge to try whenever I decide to download the apps again. I can’t help but think it’s not my fault 🤷🏻‍♀️

I was dating this guy last year and he was having some serious issues with work & family. Anyway he was inconsiderate, didn't communicate properly, etc. I truly did "give heart" as I went above and beyond trying to help him, be understanding, etc.

He reached out recently, blamed outside factors for his behavior, and I decided to try again. But I find he's just as he was - if not worse - and I'm thinking I made a huge mistake accepting him back as a friend getting to know again.

After time together and that spark has faded what are some things you can try to get called sexy again?