Guys what can you do to be sexy again for your lover?

[RoseySarah]

After time together and that spark has faded what are some things you can try to get called sexy again?

New clothes!

New naughty Toys

Just a new wife

New colone

Romantic Date

Suggestions?

[OfMiceandMen]

Apparently, doing something kind for someone else works. I was driving through the Costco parking lot one day with my ex and noticed an older lady attempting to load some stuff into her car while she was holding a cane. I stopped and helped her load things and it triggered something. LOL

[RoseySarah]

That is sweet to help!
Sounds like your ex gave you some

[Anonymous]

Good sex leads to more good sex. Little surprises are nice too. My wife surprised me last Friday by putting in one of her butt plugs and not telling me, and then letting me discover it when I got home. Trust me, that created a spark. Little things like that go a long way.

[RoseySarah]

Hm sexy o normally do you need to push it on?

Some day I'll try and fit him back there!
Just to tight!

[DizzyDesii]

If a guy wears cologne, a nice new polo shirt, gets a fresh cut and is cleanshaven, he’ll be sexy to me again. Works everytime

[RoseySarah]

Just getting all ready is very hot!
A date helps and being romantic! Plus suprising me!

[DizzyDesii]

I mean i guess but shit he can just sit across from me on the couch with a polo and a fresh cut and i’ll be happy lmao

[RoseySarah]

Hm well what about a nice hot outfit!

[RoseySarah]

Maybe a suit

[DizzyDesii]

I never was into the suit/tie. I like when they wear a nice polo or flannel with jeans or khakis and nike forces or trainers






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[Nikki1989]

Keep it romantic and most of all spontaneous.

[RoseySarah]

Both important

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Apparently, being kind and instigating some romance is what she likes.

[RoseySarah]

Good sounds wonderful 😊👍

[love_conquers_lust]

I've found some women like watching me sweat my ass off working on outdoor projects. Then when I get close, they're like "ew, no, shower, now."

[RoseySarah]

Haha so true sweat looks good but gotta have a shower!

[love_conquers_lust]

That's when I like to tease them: "But I love you. Come here and give me a big hug."

[exitseven]

try to remember what attracted her to you in the first place and concentrate on that. Working on your general appearance is also a good idea.

[RoseySarah]

Great suggestion 💯
He gets it

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Weight-loss, new clothes, new cologne

[RoseySarah]

Sound like good ideas

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@roseysarah Thank you :-)

[RoseySarah]

Welcome

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@roseysarah 👍🙏👼

[AmeerX]

I think romance is most important. New clothes work but not in a very effective way.

[RoseySarah]

What kinda romance?

[AmeerX]

Like going out, talking and keeping distance but longing for each other etc

[LunarEclipse433]

@roseysarah as a female what is your suggestion for spicing sex back up with a lover?

[RoseySarah]

Lol been suggesting romance but that is over rated says guys.

[LunarEclipse433]

Not really if both are wanting something long term. If you are already a couple, maybe play with swinging

[RoseySarah]

That always leads to a bad end! Lmao 🤣😂

Like hey wanna go find someone exciting instead of me and then decide why not I'll divorce my boring partner

Never heard of an old couple say yeah we swong

Stayed together! Nah it's the divorced that said they tried and soon after divorce!

[andreasderjuengere]

Let me suggest...

sexiness never goes away unless 'you' lose control over your food consumption.

To appear less sexy is more about what we do, than how we smell or look like.

Don't be boring. Be more 'naughty'

[RoseySarah]

Again not about that hot look more feeling sexy to someone

[andreasderjuengere]

To me it's the little gestures, glances or comments that create this ''sexy'' atmosphere.

[NewgodOmega]

Nothing coz hritik Roshan google this guy see how he looks was chosen sexiest men in Asia
All of Asia and he got divorced
Don't that tell you everything that guys need to understand it's never enough not for a women

[RoseySarah]

Lol just googled a guy 😝😂

[NewgodOmega]

But did you get the point, even he can't be sexy enough for his wife
What chance do normal guy have so why even bother

[Apple1996]

New toys always are a good idea

[RoseySarah]

Hm what kinda toys?

[Apple1996]

Any toys that the couple doesn't already own

[RoseySarah]

Like a new TV in the bedroom

[Apple1996]

I was more thinking like a dragon dildo 😆

[John_Cobretti]

You mean to look sexy?
Involves rigorous physical training lol

[John_Cobretti]

Look at the guy in the pic... it's insanely hard to have such low body fat and be ripped like that

[RoseySarah]

I mean to a women your with for 4 years.

Jeez I just grabbed a pic next time I'll pick an old fat dude

[John_Cobretti]

Haha lol

[Anonymous]

Eat fast food and burp and fart right in front of him. Mmm sexy

[RoseySarah]

That is what all the guys want us to do to them and fart in Thier face

[Opinion Owner]

Sexy!

[BLP11520]

Maybe some different sexual things?

[RoseySarah]

Hm like what?

[BLP11520]

Well, I don't know what you are doing now ( none of my business ) but you could be in a rut? A pattern of sexual behavior? I am not Dr, Ruth LOL

[RoseySarah]

Lol asking for a non sexual kind of spark all the guys are like just have good sex!

[BLP11520]

Okay, a change of scenery maybe? A remote location? Sorry I am coming up blank.

[Anonymous]

Get ripped and a respectful attitude.

[KostasKouvalis]

New body

[RoseySarah]

Feels like that for us also

[KostasKouvalis]

Get ripped. Like the gentleman in your picture. Or I can just say, change your looks in general.
I would agree

[Mark987]

hot sex

[RoseySarah]

Talking about before sex