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I am a very late bloomer when it relates to romantic relationships and marriage. I didn't get my first real girlfriend until I was 29. I am now 30 and will soon marry this same girl. Me and this girl are each other's first real relationship. I was her first kiss and everything. She is 27.

I will say my parents are separated. I have an estranged sister who is 29 who has also alienated my parents. My mom has been really hurt by this, and my sister is refusing to attend my wedding despite being invited. To me, snubbing me and my bride at my wedding is irreparable (this is a entirely different discussion). All in all, my immediate family has been torn apart for years now. My separated parents live different places, and my mom still lives around locally.

I am staying at my mom's boyfriend's house tonight (long story... we are evicting a troublesome, leftist, nasty old tenant at my home that rents the downstairs), and my mom walks into the room I am sleeping in and hugs me while crying. My mom is a little sad I am growing up and getting married. She is happy for me, but I think with all the family turmoil and me moving on (I am a mommy's boy), it is hard on her a little.

is there something where if you had it it would make you happier with your life? it could be physical objects, a person, an idea whatever it is.

Essentially every woman I’ve ever been attracted to physically had 2 recurring features-slender and cute face. Not curvy, not large breasts etc. Now I’ve been attracted to every race, hair color, eye color, style (artsy, punk, country, classy) etc. but for me to give a girl a shot she’s got to have a cute face and slim build. Even girls my friends called flat etc. I didn’t care if they had smaller chests are glutes etc.

Guess I never thought that was “high” but a friend said it was. I’m happy with it though and genuinely know I couldn’t give romantic love to a girl who didn’t fit that.