When you make peace with your past and accept that your time together has come to an end after making some beautiful memories, how do you feel?

[Anonymous]

I feel lighter and happy that we got to share that time and enjoy it in the present, but also wise enough to know that it’s better left in the past and move forward with no bitter feelings. Let bygones, be bygones and having met new people with a similar mindset has only strengthened that belief.

[ohsheeT]

You are 100% right?
Because it's not until you accept it and acknowledge it and move on from it. That's when new life will start again


If you can accept it and can't acknowledge it and say thank you're caught up in drama. Holds you back to, we're. You're gonna have to make app all this time. Once you figure it all out to get to where you're supposed to be right now in life

Understand what happened happened. There's nothing anybody can do about it right now

If you were supposed to be with that person, you would be with that person, but you're not supposed to be with that person. They're not supposed to be with you so move on. Find happiness in life again because it's waiting for you.
'Ve held yourself back so far for so long. Now you have to play ketchup

And it's okay, it's okay, because what you learn on the way will make everything better. Anyway

But the thing is to let it all go. Forget about still carry it with you for whatever reasons for so much a period of time and that's okay

But you have a new destiny now and that destiny is keep finding yourself. Keep growing, love yourself even more and more. That all that old darkness that old drama go let it out of your sighthere's no reason to hold onto it anymore. Let it go become the new you. And when you can love yourself all the way somebody else will walk into your life you can love

When this happens, put the brakes on because now you get to look back at everything that you went through and saying my ready. Am I willing to do this again? How strong am I

And when you realize you're very strong and you realize that you cannot make anybody in this world. Love you. Because if you do it's fake, you have to let them love you the way they want to love you and that's it. You can't afford

And then you have to understand it's a fifty-fifty deal you can do your part, but if they don't do their part, it's going to end, how tough are you, how tough is your heart, how loving is your heart? Who are you can fight your way through this and make it again? Something was to happen. Yes you can


This is one of the reasons why it happened is to prove to yourself that no matter what happens, you are a fighter and you will make somebody love you. You can only love somebody else and love yourself, so it's not a fifty-fifty deal. It's a 100 100 deal because you have to love yourself 50% and love that other person 50% they have to do the same. If they can't do the same, then it's never gonna work. But you are b***** enough to walk away from it. Knowing that and you can start again, do it all over again. So smile love yourself

[bobalife]

Relief and at peace. They are Exes for a reason. Most exes needs to stay behind us. I say “most” because some do get back together and can make it work. Personally, it’s all blessing in disguise for me that things didn’t work out and I can move forward.

[Asker]

Exactly I feel the same way. If it was meant to be, it would have worked out. So there’s peace in knowing if it didn’t, it wasn’t meant to.

[bobalife]

I absolutely agree. But I also follow shetty on IG where he talks about the right relationship is really about two people who comes together and makes it work by being the right person for one another. Aka it takes effort and commitment.

[Asker]

Exactly! I follow him too lol
And I love his relationship with his wife as well. She’s very radiant and beautiful as a person too. They complement each other very well.