Are my standards on looks “high”? I am very content with them either way but I never considered them “high”?

[Anonymous]

Essentially every woman I’ve ever been attracted to physically had 2 recurring features-slender and cute face. Not curvy, not large breasts etc. Now I’ve been attracted to every race, hair color, eye color, style (artsy, punk, country, classy) etc. but for me to give a girl a shot she’s got to have a cute face and slim build. Even girls my friends called flat etc. I didn’t care if they had smaller chests are glutes etc.

Guess I never thought that was “high” but a friend said it was. I’m happy with it though and genuinely know I couldn’t give romantic love to a girl who didn’t fit that.

No not high

High

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[jennifer_bloom]

Everybody has some type of preference but going out of your way to suggest women you are not attracted to are abnormal or less than worthy as people and pointing it out for the purpose of inciting confrontation or argument online, shows you lack empathy and spiritual understanding.

[Thesecretlollipop]

No he’s right, he doesn’t seem to care about much but the build and people SHOULD be slim or athletic. Stop normalizing obesity

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Better question: who cares? You clearly don’t

[Clear_Skies10]

As long as you're both consenting adults like whoever you want.

[Thesecretlollipop]

Good standards! Finally supporting healthy women in a world where thin women are shamed and looked over

[DryGermanGuy]

Where would thin women ever be shamed? In a fat camp?

[Thesecretlollipop]

@DryGermanGuy thin women tend to have smaller chests/butt which isn’t today’s beauty standard and men will say they don’t like that and call them less womanly and other women will say guys who like that are pedos even tho they’re in good shape. This society, especially American, is really normalizing obesity

[DryGermanGuy]

I understand that the United States leads the world in obesity numbers but apart from some freaky outliers, the beauty standard in magazines, fashion and movies is still thin, fit women. Some might increase their "visibility" with breast enlargement surgeries, I'll give you that.

[Thesecretlollipop]

@DryGermanGuy now there’s also this thing with big legs hips and butt as well. Thin women r typically overlooked nowadays