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My ex bestfriend had betrayed my trust (she shared something very personal and sensitive about me with someone) and she was very condescending towards me. She had already found another best friend when we last spoke. Even after I broke it off, she never apologized for what she did (because she never thought she was wrong and she didn't care enough to call me back all these months). But yesterday, I got a call from her. She was very upset because her brother got into an accident. I tried to console her as well as I could. By the time, she reached hospital, her brother had passed away. And I would never let my anger or distrust to abandon her in time like this. But should I let her crawl back in my life? I will support her in this difficult situation but I don't know if I can be her friend again if that's what she expects. What would you do if you were in this situation?

Going anonymous for this one. He’s one of my best friends, I don’t ever want to do anything to hurt him. That’s why I’m asking people on G@G for their opinion before I do anything. Basically he was with this girl for awhile, things didn’t work out, and they split up. I remember a conversation we had where he said he didn’t care if his buddies fucked his exes because he’s not with them so why should he care kinda thing. His ex continues to talk to me sexually and I keep telling her this is very inappropriate and it’s wrong, however I cannot lie. Sometimes the guy downstairs does the thinking and wants to go along with the advances (she’s absolutely gorgeous). I don’t want to do anything long term, no feelings just sex. I just think the appropriate thing to do would confirm with him first. What do y’all think?