Search Results: how to get your attention

As guys, we are told there are a lot of things you can do to make yourself more attractive.
I've done pretty much everything I've been told: get the degree, the cool job, income, your own place, fitness/health, hobbies, socialize more, etc.
From my experience, there has been a very very slight uptick in attention, but could just be from becoming a little more self-aware.

If you've done these things, what should you actually expect? How do you know when you've hit your ceiling, and how do you know if you've done self-improvement "correctly".