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I started a new job two days ok. They have thrown me right in at the deep end. On my first day they kept leaving me alone to answer phone calls even though I didn’t know the protocol or script that is used. The two other women that were supposed to be in my department training me took their lunches at the same time and left me there. I then made a mistake with a customer & she one of the women had the cheek to pull me up on it. As if I was supposed to be a psychic and know all protocol without being trained.

In any other job I have been in, I have always been trained and eased into the job. Im feeling really overwhelmed now. It’s a great job so near to home & good pay but I feel like I am being took advantage of already. I turned down 3 other jobs because this one seemed great. The other two women just seem happy there is someone to dump the workload on.

What would you do? Stick it out, pull them up on it, or just walk away now? I feel coming into the busy period it will get worse.

I’m person 1 he’s person 2

We want for a walk, it got cold & I didn’t want to go anywhere that costs anything so we went to his place and Listened to his collection of Ukrainian folk music on records which was cool I already knew bc we talked about It in the library.

We were there for a few hours then it got quiet And when I felt like he was gonna kiss me I said:

1 you can’t kiss me 🚫

2 uhh ok 😐

2…. for the record you have permission to kiss me 😉

So we both laughed. (Then I was going to try to explain my situation but I couldn’t sort it out so just showed him the post)

1 I was having difficulty sorting the situation out ethically and I asked people did advice bc I didn’t want to do the wrong & I have such little experience and strong tendency to avoid doing anything and so I don’t feel like I was able to rely on my own wisdom even tho I think generally, im fairly wise relatively. I asked for advice bc I didn’t want to treat anyone Badly.

(He was a bit surprised how he ended up coming off to me tho & hasn’t considered how odd it might come off to me bc he’s dated a lot of people and it’s sort of normal to him to talk about stuff but he also wasn’t always in the U S so I don't know maybe it’s diff other places)

2 🤔 You don’t seem flirty or anything kinda opposite really , so I didn’t think you were into me -or I thought you were very shy or conservative so I wasn’t expecting you to ask me out and then I guess I just assumed you were more experienced bc you asked me out... if I had known you are not really used to dating I probably would’ve approached things differently… I’m just used to sort of presenting myself as is, & whatever Happens happens

(He doesn’t mind if I give an update lol as long as no one knows him and don’t use his name he find this seeing other people thoughts amusing I guess)

So then I was silent, absorbing things and I felt a bit awkward bc it’s just normal to him so it must look crazy to him that I was concerned.

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