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Its a very tough topic to talk about but I (26 M) sometimes do experience sexual harassment.

!! Before going further I do acknowledge that girls experience this from men as well and I do not want to deny this, I merely want to open up the conversation that it can go both ways!!

But when I talk about it with my friends they usually laugh it off because I'm a guy and specially female friends are like yeah I really doubt its close to what I'm experiencing.

Now with small stuff I'm not too bothered, like a girl when shouts like take me home with you when I'm out is kinda funny and easy to brush off. Although there are things that go too far. One example is that when I arrive at a gym I have girls staring at me and aggressively trying to take a peek when I'm changing clothes (it has subsides since I go there once or twice a day now and I'm quite a regular). This stuff does creep me out.

Also sometimes when I walk in jogging pants or something loose some girl will randomly grab my ass. This only happened twice in the last year but this really does cross a line.

The worst part is though that there is no right way to respond as a guy, if I get angry at her people will think im being aggressive to a helpless woman, and if I tell the truth people just stare in disbelief because I'm a man.

Now I will be honest that it's not the scariest thing to me since I don't go to clubs and I only drink water so getting something slipped in my drink is nearly impossible. I'm also physically stronger then 99% of other people I meet (men and women). But I worry since I have a girlfriend and we are extreemly prude with these things.

I wanted to ask for guys, have you ever experienced this and how do you deal with this? And for girls do you think this happens to guys and have you done it in the past?

And more importantly how to open up this conversation?

So we are writing for over 50 days in a row from morning to night, and have fun sending different pictures / snaps to each other what we are currently doing.

She knows that I liked here and wanted to meet up the next day at my place to talk about, she should already have come over that day but cancelled it and then changed her mind again and had time spontanously...

At my place, she said she didn't want to give me false hopes. I understood that she prefers older man and I am 2y younger than her. She was open to me with her sexual preferences etc, she is addicted to sex so she had many partners probably 50 - 100+ .

After we cleared up the talk, she knew I liked / loved her , but she didn't tell me anything about her feelings directly only " I don't wanna give you false hopes, I don't even know what I really want." and later on she tells me I should ask her more personal questions, deeper conversations, she likes talking with me.

Then after the talk around 5:30pm I asked her if she would stay for dinner, she stayed for some reason, if she doesn't want to give me false hopes why does she stay, why didn't she tell me to fuck off like a friend of mine who got rejected from her?

And while preparing the dinner, she makes always body contact even uncomfortable body contact like pressing her chest against me, like I would not notice. And stuff like that or I playfully put her some chocolate in her mouth (teasing a bit), and she liked it.

She even wanted to do something again together, like cook smth else or do some baking. And for next week is planned to go somewhere with friends. But I don't really know if I still want to go there.

So in the end she was all the time happy, teases me , but doesn't want to give me false hope

Should I stop have contact with her? Because I myself feel like I am wasting my time with her...