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For almost a year I have been dating a married man, he sees me when he can and just recently texted me that his divorce is final and that he wants to come visit me. I recently moved out of state not waiting on him. He wants to spend Christmas and New Years with me. I have been through the married men phase before and his behaviors are typical except he is different in that he takes me to his house their bedroom to spend the night when she is out of town. He is wealthy and keeps asking me to be a kept women and that he wants to take care of me but when the alcohol wears off he doesn't communicate like he never said these things and then I get completely angry and upset and then we don't talk for a couple weeks its the same cycle. Let me give you a little of his background and a little of mine so it might make sense. He has a great career, he is a square, he is 34 has been married since he was 23 to the same woman, no kids, acts like he is 50 due to the country club he belongs too and all his friends are older, he comes from money and has never really had any trauma in his life. He asked me out I was waiting on him and his friend. I am 40, I look good for my age, have no kids, and have never been married. I rock his world in the bedroom and he does the same for me. He takes me out to fancy dinners, sporting events, whatever I want, I grew up in the ghetto, I have made my own money however as a bartender, and am finishing up my degree, I yell, he doesn't communicate, we have lived very completely different lives he likes country I like rap. My question does he like to make me feel like shit, or are his true feelings coming out when he is drunk? I see him a week or two later and he pretends like nothing happenned and we keep going through the cycle. He knows he doesn't have to tell me these things to get laid so I don't know why he does it. I never have asked him to leave his wife or complain about anything except that I want to see him more. Any questions please ask?

here's a great blog (I think?) that explains how I feel about it best: https://bust.com/creep-shaming-is-a-guy-creepy-because-hes-unattractive-or-is-he-just-you-know-creepy.html

personally, I find guys creepy when they won't leave me alone after I tell them I'm not interested. how attractive he is, or how wealthy he appears to me has no effect on that..

a few months ago as I was walking home after spending a little time on the beach a guy came out of nowhere, made a little joke, which made me laugh and started a conversation with me about several random things. he was funny, well dressed, and good looking, but didn't have an overall personality I actually find attractive. eventually, I really just wanted to finish my walk alone (I'm a bit of a loner and enjoy walks by myself often) so I politely said to him "well it was nice talking to you, I'm going to put my ear phones back on and finish my walk." he then got upset and started asking what's wrong with me? is it because I'm short? we were the same height by the way and personally I prefer guy close to the same height, not overly tall.. is it the way I'm dressed? and several other random questions about what was wrong with him.. I told him nothing. I just wanted to be alone and nicely asked him to stop following me. he refused. asked over and over again what be did wrong. asked me why I was being so mean and only finally stopped following me when I threatened to walk over to the nearby police station. It should NEVER get to that point. that guy was a special level of creep. but he wasn't the first guy to follow me and refuse to go away the first time I asked. those are the men I find creepy. I don't care what you look like or how much money you make. your creepiness is entirely based on behavior AFTER you've been turned out.