This myTake no doubt will trigger many-a people for its unshakeable truth thus if you're a feminist, or something of that nature, prepare your medicines, and breathing apparatuses so that you don't die from the triggering.
A story of a friend who learned about girls through almost endless failure
My dear friend was raised in the typical and modernised American home - a single-mother home. Like most boys these days, they are without a dominant and authoritarian male figure in their lives to guide them onto the right path of ambition and knowledge of women because fatherhood is endlessly shamed by the feminist circles who claim that teaching these boys these things results in a culture of violence and rape.
His mother would always teach him that it's utmost that he treats a woman with respect, he be nice to them, and most certainly respect their opinion as "woman know best". Not having any counter opinion to this, he sucked it up, and went into the world believing all of this, especially the world of school where normally men and women know their place.
He treated every girl he met in the nicest manner possible. He respected them. He wouldn't question them as "woman knew best". He'd even let women bully him because from what he had been taught, women were allowed to do that and to stand up for himself is tantamount to misogyny. However, like every human being, he wanted to have a relationship. He wanted to have relationships with women, but saw nothing but endless failure. He told me that he'd always be told that he was too nice, and that "maybe one day he'll find the right one". It angered him because he noticed all the "asshole" guys were getting all the girls easily. "How can they get girls? They are being mean! I was taught to be nice and respectful to girls. That's what makes men attractive, isn't it?" He unfortunately learned the hard way.
What's the point of recounting my friend's story and failure with women? Well, it's a lesson to many men out there who've also had trouble with women.
1. Don't be a pushover
What does this mean? Don't let women bully you. Stand up for yourself, and say what you think without apology. Women will respect you more - no matter your beliefs - if you stand up for yourself than if you supplicate and apologise for what you believe.
2. Don't treat women equally.
Despite the feminist mantra, most men who women date do not treat women as equals but rather as subordinates.
3. Be a leader
Women subconsciously want a man who can lead, and guide. Don't ask her if she'd like to go to a restaurant or some other place. TELL her that you and her are going out, and that she'd better wear something nice!
4. Don't take women seriously
What does this mean? It means that you shouldn't let women dictate your emotions. Be an oak tree. Whatever she throws at you. Your feet are still gonna be tappin'.
5. Increase your testosterone
I don't know what's going on, but it seems that something is lowering men's testosterone which actually is responsible for the "nice guy" epidemic in our society. What can do you? Start lifting weights number one! Weight-lifting increases your testosterone a lot therefore increases your masculinity. Most "assholes" (including myself) do some form of exercise that rewards this magical and natural juice.
Do these things, then you get this. Submission.
The problem with most "nice guys" is that they can't do any four of these things. They are easily offended, easily beaten, weak, and without ambition.
So what happened to my friend? Well, he changed soon as he and I became friends. At first, I was dismissive of his constant talk of failure with women until it reached a point that I took him aside and taught him how to be with and act around women. He was stubborn at first because he was so sure that I was just teaching him to be "one of those typical asshole douchebag types" but he came through. He's now running his own business, has had many girlfriends, and has one now. He stands up for himself whenever necessary not letting anyone push him around especially punks and women.
One more thing, women stop saying you want nice guys. ALL men know it's bullshit. And men, if your friends are failing with women, telling them these important life lessons so that we can stop of epidemic of nice guys.
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pretty good take! this is pretty random but i kinda got an issue with the testosterone thing. mainly because bruce jenner was a machine and it didn't stop him... her... whatever :D from becoming this:
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i'm not a biologist or taken it in years so i may (and probably am, haha), but i kinda think testosterone might be kinda fixed.
He didn't become that because of testosterone but rather because we live in a left-wing culture that glorifies "multiple" identities.
Woman: The earth is round.
Man: No, you can't be serious.
Woman: It is! Photos from space prove it!
Man: You must be imagining it.
Woman: You think I imagined astronauts?
Man: Of course, I never take women seriously. They're all liars.
Earth isn't round breh
Have you ever looked for the end?
I have looked for it and found the end. Amazing view
Too bad you didn't stumble.
You're quite flirtatious today
You're quite daft today. Need a tinfoil hat?
I'm flattered