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I work on the traffic team at church. I am usually wearing a security uniform.

I saw this middle eastern guy driving this beat up van. He pulled into the filled church parking lot shortly before worship service released.

He drove a circle around the parking lot before I stopped him and questioned him. He had children roaming in the back of the mini van.

I couldn't understand his English well. I directed him to a parking space, where he sat there for a while. I kept a very close eye on him the entire time.

Luckily, everything was fine. I was very nice and was trying to help, but I maintained a visual on him and his vehicle the entire time he sat there.

Did I do the right thing?

I saw this happen a lot when I was younger. Admittedly I would sometimes get jealous/frustrated when an attractive woman choose a lesser attractive man over me just because he was “really funny”. And these men were also mediocre at other aspects in their lives (work, hobbies, etc.). Some of them were bums and/or scum bags.

Then I got older/mature and I shifted my position to “well I have to give credit where credit’s due”. If I saw an average looking guy pull a hot woman then I had a “good for you man” attitude. If I saw an attractive woman date some abusive asshole then I had “well you are going to get what you signed up for” attitude as well. And when these women got burned I refused to give them a shoulder to cry if they had the nerve to come crying to me about it.

But now I believe men are being judged more harshly by women on their looks more then ever before. Our digitized society has pushed it with social media and dating apps. But they some of them are just as judgmental as guys used to be (or worse). The only exception would be if the guy has money and/or fame.