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Search Results: pursuing him
Does it look suspicious?
There’s a guy I’ve been talking to on Facebook, since another guy pursued me everywhere, in person and online, including here for two years, trying to get me to be his girlfriend, then gave up. They look similar, but...
Anonymous
(36-45) What is the girls deal?
So there's this problem I’ve run into which is I’ve been interested in a girl for a little while now but I suspected she was also talking to another guy. Turns out I was probably right unless they’re just really good...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do women prefer the guy who pursues or the one who doesn’t?
Let’s say a girl is interested in two guys. Guy number 1 is always trying to talk and hangout with her but guy number 2, while seeming interested in her, doesn’t really pursue. He’s not constantly up her ass and doesn’t...
Anonymous
(18-24) Am I unattractive if I only get approached and pursued by men I find unattractive?
My previous boyfriends and the guys who approach me have been guys who I honestly deemed less attractive than me. When it comes to exes I was told that I could do better and that I was more attractive (even by them...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girls, Should I pursue a relationship with a high school boyfriend in a case like this?
We mutually broke up when I got into college and he went into the army. Six years later I have a job as a business operations assistant, I go to get coffee on my day off and I see him. I'm wearing a casual shorts and t...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did he completely ignore me?
Me and this guy dated for about 3 months. He and I both knew I was moving away when we first met but we still proceeded to date. I knew the move was temporary so I thought I would come back and we would probably make it...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does a woman’s hair dictate how men see her? Does it have an affect on her level of attractiveness?
I'm inquiring because a colleague I've known for about two months has consistently shown subtle signs of interest. Up until three days ago, I wore my hair down every day. Recently, I switched to a low bun with a side...
Justmisscurious
Xper 5 Age: 32 Exploring his Options Or Just Not Into Me?
I met this guy through a mutual friend and we instantly seemed attracted to each other. He would always hold eye contact with me or try to be around me, or talk to me. He’s always laughing around me and smiling. He would...
Mhmmmalreadykno
Xper 5 Age: 23 Am I but a lifeless entity?
I am a loving man. I have ambitions and dreams, flaws and insecurities, passions and plans. I would love someone to share it all with. But I only ever find myself being brushed off by women I pursue. As if I’m not a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does this guy like me?
hi, i was wondering if this guy likes me because i was always nervous and shy and we would usually smile at each other or in math i would notice that he would wait for me to leave the door first then go behind me. He...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it normal for a man not to text often in the beginning stages of dating? So far, he only texts to plan dates?
I matched with this man on Hinge and he pursued me. He asked for my number and to FaceTime. We FaceTimed briefly and then he said he was glad I wasn’t a catfish lol. So he asked me out on a date. We went on a date, and he...
Anonymous
(25-29) Long-distance: should I give up or keep going?
Recently started talking to someone online, we shared we liked each other and I do love talking to him. I believe we can have multiple soul mates. Not sure why, but he gives me soul mate vibes… we just found out how far...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, what are some mistakes guys make when pursuing a girl?
I've PROBABLY MADE THEM ALL
Jmmmfi4
Master Age: 45 How shouldi approach this situation?
This follow up to my last question which I have some reasonable doubts that I should just let things go. Quick summary girl (25) confessed to Me (30) she has a little crush on me and make her blush a lot. It's long...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do YOU have the courage to be disliked?
This book by Japanese author Ichiro Kishimi lays out this important life advice for us all. https://www.amazon.com/The-Courage-to-be-Disliked/dp/1760630497/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1701209154&sr=8-1 It...
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
Follow up questions about common interests in relationships?
Three questions 1. Have you ever picked up an interest/hobby of someone you are pursuing? 2. What was the reason? To show you care? To manipulate them? To get into their pants? 3. What was the result? Did you learn to...
Tren58
Xper 5 Age: 38 What does this mean when a guy acts like this?
I'm talking to a guy. We text everyday just about. He's seems to always be super caring and he remembers the smallest details from previous conversations. He's usually a fast responder and we seem to have a lot in common....
Anonymous
(18-24) Guys who say they're done pursuing love or falling in love, do you actually think you can avoid falling in love?
I mean what about a woman who has been your friend and who has been loyal to you for several years. Wouldn't it be hard to avoid catching feelings for her? Are you really able to switch that part of your brain off? I...
Anonymous
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