Why are men always staring at me everywhere but I rarely get pursued by anyone?

[Anonymous]

[glennos89]

I'm not sure what you look like so a selfie would be helpfull to give you a honest opinion. I think it might be because off your beauty🤷‍♂️ When I see a really attractive woman I either think they aren't single or they are to intimidating to talk too because of her stunning looks

[ChicoFromThe305]

It's not that common like in movies would be my guess

[Asker]

I’m a model so I think sometimes guys get intimidated a little bit but I’m also kind of shy and awkward. It’s like everywhere that I notice this, sometimes I get approached, but just nothing really comes of it long term.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well then that's also possible and shyness doesn't help either, I never thought I'd hear model and shyness/awkwardness in the same sentence, that's crazy lol but back to the topic, the way dating works is that with patience comes the best results, this is not something you want to rush, you should work on your shyness tho, I'm not saying it's a bad thing cause shyness can be adorable but it's a bad thing for you when it comes with socializing, one can only get to see that inner beauty if you show it and shyness makes that a bit more complicated, if you get approached then that's a good sign, people approach, you are bound to get a bullseye at some point, you just keep being yourself.

[Asker]

Thank you 🥹🥰 I think I’m also afraid to open up and be vulnerable cuz I’m hard on myself and worried they’ll think less or something. I’m working on this and it’s coke a long way. I hope to meet that man soon!

[ChicoFromThe305]

We are all people, none of us are perfect we all have that less in us, which makes us somewhat equal, you are a beautiful (assuming by your career) calm and lovable spirit, everyone is lovable with the proper work in themselves so what's not to love? Cheer up, don't let these intrusive thoughts cloud your way of thinking, you'll find someone, just like every other good thing that's happened in your life, this will be unpredictable too, til then we will both route on the idea of you finding your prince charming and you work on yourself for the better not the worse, I don't wanna hear you say those destructive words about yourself again 😆💯

[Anonymous]

A variety of reasons.

They are shy. They are intimated. They are already in a relationship. Or they just see someone that's nice to look at. Men just like to look at attractive women.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are intimidating to approach.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Staring is easy. Pursuing is harder.

[Anonymous]

Maybe intimidated by you