Hmm, that is a weird situation. This guy seems kind of confused or unsure about what he wants. On one hand it sounds like he really likes you and you guys get along great. But then when you try to actually make plans or define what's going on, he gets all flakey.
A few thoughts:
- He might say he wants a relationship but maybe isn't actually ready for one yet. Some guys get scared when it starts to feel real.
- He could also be talking to or interested in other girls too. So he enjoys your attention but doesn't want to commit fully yet in case something better comes along.
- Maybe he's got some baggage from previous relationships that makes him hesitant now. Or anxiety about things getting too serious too fast.
Either way, it's not really fair to you if he's sending mixed signals and won't give you a straight answer. You deserve someone who knows what they want and isn't afraid to actually date you! I'd say either give him like one more chance to show he's serious... or just start moving on and don't waste your time waiting around for him to figure it out. You're young - don't settle for a flakey dude if you don't have to!
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It sounds like games to me (which I don't have a lot of patience with).
He probably already has a girlfriend but wishes he could have you too
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What a moron. Stop wasting your time.
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