Is it true that if a guy doesn't pursue you he doesn't like you?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not always. Some dudes are just really shy. Some dudes have never even talked to a girl. A lot of dudes aren’t 6 ft tall, make six figures, etc, etc, so most chicks won’t even talk to a lot of men. So they won’t even approach a girl they like because they know they have no chance. A man may come up to a girl and seem “creepy” as a lot of women like to say about men, but honestly to you that “creepiness” is him being very vulnerable at that point, so yes he may not know what to say so it comes off as “creepy.” When in reality he may not have experience w approaching women. Women seem to think it’s an easy thing for men to just approach women. It may seem that way to you because as women, women usually aren’t the ones who do the approaching.

ColHathi · Accepted Answer

Probably is, if it's the type of guy that likes these sorts of games. We're not all the same, man. Lots of guys, like myself, don't want to play games. There are probably also a bunch of guys in both categories that are either too scared to try, doesn't think the girl would be interested, or they have stuff going on in their personal life that's keeping them from wanting to try to date someone.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I was always taught men are hunters and they love the chase?
Are these new girly boys not hunters? Come on man, it's you instinct, it's in your genes. The problem for the girl is, once he catches her, he's done. He didn't want to keep her, just hybt her down.
There are so many girls and women and guys on here complaining that they don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend - this is why! You don't pursue anyone! Duh!🙃

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not entirely. Many guys are sick and tired of having to do all of the work, and most think chasing is stupid, which it is

DextroShade · Answer

It depends on what you mean by "pursue": if he never bothers approaching you in the first place then he doesn't like you; if he did approach you but you shot him down but for some stupid insane reason think he is supposed to read your mind and keep trying even though he risks being labeled a predator then he DID like you but you blew it.

Benplus10 · Answer

Yes it’s true. If he liked you, it would be pretty obvious

Starrrboy · Answer

Well if he's not having a meltdown or something and you made him know you're into him then yes..

boobliker · Answer

not these days as if he asks you and you say no then we have to now take that as game over with you due to harassment so if you like some guy never say no to him.

moviedude714 · Answer

Huge BS statement because it's not always true

Sharkstealth · Answer

If he never pursued neither one of you know that either likes each other.

AmeerX · Answer

I don't like games. And I pursue if a woman shows some promise.

Twalli · Answer

If a girl wants me to chase her, it'll never happen.

Anonymous · Answer

Not true at all. I pursue virtually no women and there are many women I've liked.

MrCommodore · Answer

No, that's totally untrue.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Nope. Could be other reasons.

Iron_Man · Answer

I doubt that he could be shy

John_Cobretti · Answer

No, not true in most cases...

HateyouxD · Answer

Not necessarily

boggboss · Answer

Nope

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

100 PERCENT NOT TRUE

Anonymous · Answer

No women always come to me

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Not true.

Tharithi · Answer

Absolutely

The-Stud · Answer

Not true

jahaims · Answer

Nope

Joker_ · Answer

it's not true

FenixG45 · Answer

Nope!

Anonymous · Answer

Not necessarily.

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