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Hi, I’m a just 20F so am pretty inexperienced but curious with how relationship dynamics work. My boyfriend of a month and I are planning our first weekend trip together to the beach. Basically, last week we just texted our availability and then I bought the hotel and he bought the rental car. However, yesterday I found out my brother is getting out of the hospital the weekend boyfriend and I planned our vacation and found cheap flights home that day… since I haven’t been able to see him in a couple months, I want to fly home that weekend now. (And I see much much nicer hotel options for the following weeks). Am I wrong for asking my boyfriend to reschedule our vacation plans? I want this to be little stress so feel kinda bad about it but think it may be worth it with how the prices and schedules workout.

We will be discussing it all this evening when he gets back from work, but I want to avoid these mixups in the future, so.. how do you typically plan these types of coordinated events with your partner and split it up? Is it a good idea to sit down and do everything in person, side by side? Any advice would be great 😊

Things were going well with this guy, until a particular day. It was a formal work event (we work at a school), and we'd agreed to attend it together and especially be with this one student whose parents usually don't show up to events. We'd talked about taking the family photo together and being there for the kid. But, when the day came, a hundred emotions and thoughts flooded over me, including this being my last day with the kids, and I didn't go to him. He'd also texted me asking where I was, and I didn't notice till later. After all the speeches, I was crying and went to the ladies room to clean up before seeing him. But when I got back, he was gone. I found him at his work desk, working. We exchanged very few words. Eventually, he went home. The other day, I dug deep into why I'd acted that way, and I figured out it links back to my childhood- my dad left. On grad day, I had this image in my head of my crush, the kid and I taking pictures together. But the kid's trashy dad showed up unexpectedly. I think this was one reason I avoided my crush- our plans to take the family photo together was destroyed. A few days ago, before I started reflecting on all this, I tried to ask him out but he said he just started seeing someone. At first I confessed my feelings via text and then tried to say goodbye, but he asked to stay friends. I said no. Later I changed my mind and apologized for being dramatic, because he's work partners with one of my mentors since high school, and I don't want my issues to affect their partnership. He said we were cool. Two nights ago, I watched a movie he would also like, so I texted him about it as an attempt to smooth things out as friends, since we used to talk about movies. He isn't replying. I don't know if I should give him space or talk to him about graduation day. All I know is we can't move forward in any direction if he's still upset. If we were to never see each other again, this wouldn't be so bad but we probably will.