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So a girl from an online group started flirting and talking VERY sexual stuff with me intensely for (probably) no real reason about almost 5 months ago, and when I tried to warn her with a friend for a really toxic dude one month ago she instead got curious about him and is probably now talking to him almost every day and most likely doesn't believe me anymore. I think this because she kinda mocked me and my friend when I warned her a second time.

I contacted with her two times after that but it was rather not so deep and smooth as how it used to be. She replied in two minutes the first time and wasn't mean per se, just a bit vague and provocative. Apart from this, she used to say she even wanted to meet my parents and have my surname in 5 years, and talked about our family of millions of children about which I joked first.

All my friends are saying she's an attention-whore who never cared and just uses me and other men for her own self-esteem. Some said I could try to ask her to figure out about her true intentions from the beginning. Others said to just ignore her and maybe delete her everywhere.

What do you guys think? I'd appreciate your advises.

By the way: I used to have a crush on her but now I just distrust her. I'm about to end this shit in my head very soon. My choice would be either option 1 or 2, but I'm still thinking about it.

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there's this kinda shy and quiet girl i liked that I've appraoched at work and talked to a few times and she recriprocated like she's also interested in getting to know me. But the thing is she act like she's uninterested, very shy or intmindated of me through body language. For example, when we walk past each other or stay close to each other she would just look to the ground or when she's walking and looks up and sees me, she quickly look away/at the ground. Never ever initiate convos with me but if i do, she does seemed interested in talking with me as im also a very quiet guy as well. She just can't seem to look at me unless i approached and talk to her. What is she thinking?

About a week and half ago I chatted up a much younger girl. She was shy but interested once she warmed up to me. We chatted for a long time. I texted she her the next day but got no response.

I definitely know better than to keep on messaging women when they don’t respond. So I haven’t contacted her since. Haven’t heard from her either. I decided to let 10 days pass and tomorrow I’ll send a simple hello.

Obviously when people don’t message first or respond promptly it’s a bad sign. But I can’t help but wonder if a much younger woman might feel more hesitant to contact an older guy vs a guy her own age despite being interested. Like she expects me to take 100% control of everything. Maybe that’s just wishful thinking.

I am trying to tread carefully here without being boring. We were both upfront and honest about we wanted (a fling on the DL). But I know much younger women change their minds more than wind changes direction. She definitely had me interested.