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Not too long ago I went on date for the hell of it with a young woman I had very little physical attraction for. But I treated her well, bought her drinks, engaged in a good conversation and even drove her back to her place.

After some discussion she made a very insulting comment about my haircut a few moments after I dropped her off. Taken aback and pissed off I just said “well fuck you & have a good night” and left. I did nothing to provoke her. I didn’t hit on her.

The next day I sent her a DM saying “that haircut comment was mean”. She responded “you know what you are completely right. You did absolutely nothing to deserve it. I don’t know what the hell is wrong with me”. She then proceeded to literally beg to me (not exaggerating) to go on a second date. She kept going off on how cute I was & everything else.

I told her I felt better that she apologized but I declined. I wished her the best.

I later asked myself (and should have asked her) would she have apologized if she did not find me attractive? I highly doubt it. Her apology wasn’t truly genuine because there was still something in it for her.

The world isn’t fair. It’s obviously easier to mistreat people who are of little or no value to you. It’s like seeing a homeless person. There is virtually nothing they can do for you (and they can be annoying or even dangerous). But would you do something nice for them and do it discreetly (not for optics)?

It is just in my experience especially with dating is that women have a harder time respecting men they don’t find value in.

To a limited extent I can understand they don’t want to give the guy the wrong idea. But once a woman determines a man is of little use to her she feels like it’s okay to disrespect him much more then vice versa

I have been in the reverse position a few times. I won’t bend over backwards for those women. But I won’t ghost or disrespect them either. I will politely turn them down.

I think most women might think guys don't have boundaries at all, or if they do its unhealthy ones. or they fake having boundaries but if a girl actually says yes to dating them they drop em all out of desperation.

So if thats the case does it actually shock you to meet a guy who not only has healthy boundaries but actually holds them firmly with few exceptions?

And guys if you want to answer, whats been your experience dating a woman with your boundaries? do you get positive or negative reactions?

I’ve online dated a lot. No girl I liked had ever ‘fought over’ me. While they were ignoring my messages they were just simping over the really hot white guy that didn’t give her attention. I’ve seen their dms vs mine. If you’re a perfect looking white guy, you can not message them and they are begging for your attention.

Girls are all the same, they all suck. I never get the ones I want. None of them deserve me how about that, I’m going to go far in life. They don’t deserve what I could bring. I hate them all. I’m bitter

I’ve been on the apps for fkin years. Even paid money here there. I give up. There’s also nothing more I can do to work on myself. It’s over

I’m 25. I’ve had enough experience I feel

So this guy set himself on fire screaming free Palestine outside the Israeli embassy. He’s a true legend but it’s tragic. Of course americans pointed guns at him while burning because that’s all they’re good for.

Americans need to stop being brainless. They’re like sheep. To the point they can support genocide. Americans are evil.

“People in Gaza are being burned alive, are suffocating to death under collapsed buildings, are having operations and amputations without anesthesia, are starving to death, are watching their loved ones die in front of them, are experiencing suffering of a degree that very few of us here in the west can even imagine. And our ruling class is absolutely attempting to normalize this for us.“ not my words but couldn’t put it better myself.