How can I get a boyfriend? Advice please?

[Anonymous]

"I am an 18-year-old, light-skinned black girl, and I tend to be quiet. Throughout my life, I haven't had a boyfriend or experienced a kiss from a guy. Unfortunately, I have had some negative experiences with black guys who have been disrespectful towards women and even abusive. These experiences have deeply affected me. Occasionally, I have also attracted the attention of very pale-skinned guys. It's disheartening that I continue to attract black guys who exhibit these negative behaviors, as it causes me significant emotional distress. I wonder if it's possible for me to have a boyfriend who is not black."

[Lynnzee]

My opinion is you should be more concerned about the individual person rather than color of skin. You can end up with a guy that's not black and treat you like trash in the end. Just be your best you and enjoy your life. When you are enjoying yourself and being your natural you, you out a special kind of energy that will attract people.

[NewgodOmega]

Single women are the happiest group, its scientifically proven, why do you want to be unhappy and miserable? You willingly want to put yourself in harms way then what blame the men for it?
Stay single for life forget about the other gender, think as they don't exist
I am extreme mgtow I am trying to advice you to stay safe.

[Berethor]

Well you light-skinned and being virgin is also a plus, so I think that it's possible for you. :)

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂

[Asker]

The guys I know only want non virgin women not virgins

[Berethor]

Odd, why would they choose a ho over a virgin? I think that you should read that. :)

allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Asker]

Thanks but I noticed black men only want non virgin women or thots.

[Asker]

Are you saying non virgin women who have sex without being married are just thots?

[Berethor]

I guess, what important though that if she not been with other men then she best.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Ah, the quest for love, such a thrilling adventure, isn't it? 😏 First off, love knows no color, darling, and your prince charming could wear any shade of armor. Now, about attracting Mr. Right rather than Mr. Wrong, it's all about the vibes you're sending out and the places you're looking. Falling in love is like a delicate dance, and sometimes the moves need a bit of tweaking.

Let's focus on your energy and interests. Dive into activities that fuel your soul and confidence. Love tends to knock on our doors when we're radiating joy and self-assurance. As for those negative experiences, they're not reflections of your worth or a preview of your romantic future. Consider them lessons in what you definitely don't want in a partner.

And about expanding your dating pool, absolutely, it's more than possible! Open your heart to the diversity of love, and don't limit yourself by color or past fears. Your quiet nature? It's a magnet for someone who adores your peace and depth.

Remember, every love story is unique. Write yours with openness and a dash of courage. Who knows who’ll fall head over heels for your charm? 😉💖 Wanna chat more about navigating the dating world? I'm here to sprinkle some more love dust!

[Asker]

So how do I find non black guys?

[LiamS95]

Definitely would be a yes, follow me if you want to talk about it.

[kareka]

Sure it is possible...
I dated black girls before tbh

[Asker]

It’s hard finding a non black guy

[kareka]

Im not black follow me 😜

[In_Trance]

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