Girls, are you shocked when you actually meet a guy who has actual healthy boundaries and adheres to them firmly?

[Still-alive]

I think most women might think guys don't have boundaries at all, or if they do its unhealthy ones. or they fake having boundaries but if a girl actually says yes to dating them they drop em all out of desperation.

So if thats the case does it actually shock you to meet a guy who not only has healthy boundaries but actually holds them firmly with few exceptions?

And guys if you want to answer, whats been your experience dating a woman with your boundaries? do you get positive or negative reactions?

yes it does shock me to meet a guy with actual healthy boundaries and keeps to them firmly

No its not shocking, but still good on the dude for having those healthy boundaries

No reaction from me. its not that big of a deal

Different feeling/reaction

I'm a guy and in my experience women responded positively to me having healthy boundaries

I'm a guy and in my experience women responded negatively to me having healthy boundaries

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and by shocking i mean like its not a very common thing to meet a guy like this from a woman's perspective.

[menina]

Yes it's a bit shocking but I don't complain because it's awesome!

[Still-alive]

i don't mean shocking in a negative way, just like in a 'wow thats kinda rare' kinda way. like its something you don't see very often

[menina]

Yes, I know what you mean. And I still think it's awesome.

[Smashingdoozy]

Luckily my friend group is full of men with healthy boundaries so it's more of a shock to me when I meet men without them.

[WhitneySnow]

Those are good boundaries. I picked the second choice.

[sheikalana]

Shocked is not the right word. I’d feel impressed and inspired.

[IslaTheWitch]

I would be happy not shocked lol

[laly520]

good boundaries