Search Results: relationship advice

Why is it so difficult to break up with a toxic person?

6 years relationship. He was toxic from day one but I was too young and in love to understand. He acted like he had 2 personalities. He was sweet then all of a sudden he was yelling at me for washing the dished but didn't...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a guy do this?

I got out of a abusive relationship I was hanging out with one of my guy friends yesterday we sat on the park he asked if I was okay I broke down crying saying I wasn’t and he asked if I wanted a hug I said yeah and he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Not sure what to think of this situation with my ex, what could his motives be? does he want me back and is he messing around?

So my ex boyfriend and I broke up a couple months ago (his idea Due to his busy schedule and emotional instability) but we’ve remained in contact ever since. When he ended things he said that we could try in a year when...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Boyfriend Got a New Dog and Shows Excessive Affection?

My boyfriend recently got a new dog and I’m having trouble adjusting to it. We live together but I still go to college so am living in my dorm M-F. I live with him on weekends so I feel the dog is a big part of our...

Vallanna

Xper 2 Age: 24

Should I Continue To Consider A Ladies Man?

I reconnected with this guy from high school through a mutual friend. We have gotten really close but no sex because I've been hurt, and want to take it slow. We had been sort of like friends but dating at the same time....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I wrong for telling my friend his “woman” is a manipulative narcissist?

I say “woman” because he refers to her as his friend but she’s actually his sugar mama basically. She controls every little detail of his life, and in all honesty I don’t care very much. He made his choices and he’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fashion & Beauty

Are guys sporting tanktops an attractive fashion trend?

Guys have been wearing tanktops that go back to wrestlers and bodybuilders such as Hulk Hogan and Arnold Schwarzenegger. That's both a fitness attire and a fashion trend for outting. Is the style trend for guys so not...

Christoff92

Yoda Age: 46

Family & Friends

Girls, I ghosted my Close friend, how can I mend?

Met Julia (F29) in college 7 years ago, grew closer in the last 3 years. She's one of my closest college friends. Met ex, Sarah (F30), through Julia; the 8-month relationship was great but ended toxically. Sarah sabotaged...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Stay single, find marriage, or be single for a while longer, then get married?

As it states based on this info which would be better to pursue: I sometimes feel a constant back and forth between being single or getting married. Next year I will final graduate from a program that will grant me a lot...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How to breakup with someone you love?

We've been together for a year. I think I love him. But I also know I have to break up with him because he's not a nice person. He's very abusive and every time he's mad he says the worst possible things one can imagine....

Anonymous

(18-24)

My ex asked me for advice? What could be his genuine intentions?

I used to be romantically involved with a guy from 2018 to 2021 on & off but we still have each other on social media. I currently have a new boyfriend. A few days ago the girl who he was with after I broke up with him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My sister and mother doubt the guy I'm in a relationship with (read description, I need advice and an opinion from y'all)?

I've met a guy online through a collector group and we talked for a month about several things until I told him that I liked him so we got to know each other better. He offered me to visit him first and to cover my...

Fraulein1700

Xper 3 Age: 25

Do your relationships work out better/last longer when the woman initiates?

I’ve noticed that in my life, whenever I’m in a dating situation, things tend to work out better for me when the woman initiates. What I mean by initiate is make the first move, i. e. introducing herself first, texting me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why marriage is terrifying ?

I could swear from now that whatever am gonna say is the truth and nothing but the truth... I wonna ask you guys about the marriage in general from a personal issue? Am a 6'6 man with a n athletic body who's became an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I tell her I don't want to spend anymore money?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and I normally I spend a lot of money on her (I didn't mind at first because I loved her very much), but times have changed a bit. Me and my girlfriend are...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it time for me and my fiancee of 9 years to end things?

So I'll start by saying that my fiance (32m) and I (30f) have been together since 2014 we have been engaged since 2021 and live in an apartment together. Things are good as far as we laugh a lot we travel and don't have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can man change their mind when he says he only see you as a friend?

To all the guys, I really need your opinion on this and I hope I can get a good advice from all of you. I have been seeing this guy for almost a year now, the first 6 months I was asking him if we can pursue the...

novelll

Xper 4 Age: 29

Confused about my current friends with benefits?

Hello, I met this guy on Bumble and we have been talking for a month and met 3 times already. 2 of those times ended with a hookup. He also matched with a friend of mine. He has been talking to her and I for the same...

Anonymous

(25-29)