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3rd time writing this so asking all guys out there your looking for a girl to you go for one showing a lot of skin or the one that has a bit of skin showing or do you even care what way there dressed

So here's the Boyfriend;
nice, caring, a yes-man, spoils his girlfriend laid back and making it good in life atm.
a handy man, has every tool for the job
loves the outdoors and adventure
lives the happy go lucky lifestyle

The girlfriend:
artsy, musical and crafty
loves making others laugh, like a laid-back class clown
sometimes dramatic about her problems in life
adventure and outdoors loving too
a worry-wart about life hang-ups and obstacles

The situation:
boyfriend has been in a relationship with this girl for 2 years, loves the hell out of her and spoils her with love. he moved away in the last year so it's hard on them to have a long distance relationship for a year. He wants girlfriend to come move in with him, he's really excited about it and so is she.

girlfriend has been preparing to move for the last 2 months but everything that can go wrong has, and she's an emotional wreck because of it, she tells all of her worries to boyfriend. It's to the point where it should be annoying to boyfriend but he isn't showing it. (prolly doesn't want to hurt her feelings)

girlfriend has a tendancy to put herself down and has no self esteem/ confidence.
girlfriend realised that now she only looks like a whiny bitch to him and is afraid that boyfriend will get tired of her shit and move on. girlfriend loves him so hard and is mortified that He'll call off the move and dump her ass. She won't talk to him tomorrow so he won't have to listen to her whining again.

Should boyfriend dump her ass? How can girlfriend fix this? She told me she's been apologising profusely since last night and thinks she just looks like one of his ex's now, which he always hated because they were crazy and emotional.

What is boyfriend gonna do? help me calm her ass down and fix it please

Honestly, I'm torn. I have a very strong argument for both pro and con. I'm probably just not going to go, simply because I'm a major pessimist and although I have pretty good pro points on the matter, the cons are more my style.
Pro-
-I LOVE to dress up and at least convince myself that I look good
-This is the "magical" night all young girls look forward to
-Basically every young girl's dream
-Memories can be made on prom night
Con-
-Costs money
-No one to go with/friends will all end up leaving me there to go get their own boy/girl toys for the night
-I'm not very attractive, so constant fear of judgment for showing that I actually care how people view me (by dressing up and possibly failing to look nice)
-Even if I go, the focus will be on my more attractive cousin, although we're exactly the same in nearly every aspect, she's more outgoing and good looking than I am.
-I've gotten over the dream of prom, now my dream is to finish every episode of my favorite show on Netflix, which I can work towards by skipping prom!
-Proms seems a bit over rated. "YAY I GET TO SPEND CASH TO GO INTO A CROWDED ROOM (with anxiety) OF A PLACE I HATE (school) IN A PROBABLY UNCOMFORTABLE OUTFIT WITH PEOPLE I DON'T EVEN LIKE/WHO TREAT ME LIKE SHIT, ALL SO I CAN DO SOME HORRENDOUS BODY FLAILING (my attempts at dancing) WOOOOO PROM!"

My cousin and her mom have both tried convincing me to go, but at no avail. I'll be here that night, with all of you, scrolling through the topics. How about you?