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That black people are impoverished not because socioeconomics, racism etc but because they blow every penny they get on overpriced consumer products, take loans they can't afford and don't save or invest for their future all to look like a baller.

In 2022 the black spending power hit a whooping 1.6 Trillion dollars? How much of that was spent Nike Jordans? 1 billion? How much spent on nails and hair extensions? On Mercedes? How much they spending paying the intrest payments on loans?

It's not that they are spending our money outside the black community that's the problem, it's that they spending it foolishly on crap they don't need rather than investing it in their own futures. Black Spending Power is just a pharse media people and community activists coined to make it sound like they oppressed but we got somehow got power due to how much money they blow each year. Nobody talks about white spending power or Asian spending power or jewish spending power, why? Because they save their money, they invest they money in bonds and shares, they get themselves mortgages rather than pay somebody else's mortgage with rent checks. You see a white guy or Asian guy he not spending $300 dollars on the latest Nikes made in a 3rd world country for a dollar, he might be driving a busted old Honda even though he making good money because he trying to get together the down payment on a house or start a business or get enough money to go to college. White women don't be spending $2000 per month on hair and nails. Asian people be pushing their kid's to do well at school and college.

They gotta look back and ask why all through segregation and Jim crow was the black community more prosperous then than now?

If you watch commercials now they are all aimed at black folks especially ones regarding loans.

I see many who aren’t focused on their partner but rather others who are around them. For example a person looking at me while expressing their (fake) interest in another person. Clearly, you care more about my presence than being turned on or excited to see whoever you’re using to incite jealousy. It’s even more laughable when that is a lesbian looking at me. It’s obvious these 🏳️‍🌈 are more interested in me because I completely forget who’s watching when I like a man.

A gay man 🏳️‍🌈 is also more likely to enjoy the BDSM aspect of his relationship with another girl by encouraging jealousy in me instead of actually focusing on that girl. Normal heterosexual behaviour has lost appeal for these 🌈🏳️‍🌈

And why?😏

So I have this coworker he's a rather timid man and doesn't speak much unless you specifically ask him a question typically.

I wouldn't call him unfriendly or anything personally I like him and like hearing what he has to say. So I probably bother him a bit to much 😅 just to be clear I like him in a platonic way not a romantic way. And I'm married so I'm sure he knows that.

He stated last week that he doesn't have any friends just as a off handed comment that he probably forgot he told me.

I was thinking about inviting him to go do something and would like to be his friend but I honestly don't know if he wants a friend he might just be politely tolerating my bullshit and just doesn't want to tell me to fuck off and leave him alone

So what do you think should I ask him to hangout or no?