Have you ever had an effectless conversation with a woman?

[Anonymous]

Recently, I had an effectless conversation with a neighbor of mine. Everything between us felt very easy without no awkwardness, no second-guessings, no questioning her, no finding answers about our encounters. Also, effectless conversations with someone is not a myth.

An effortless conversation is one that feels natural and easy, characterized by a free-flowing exchange of ideas and mutual engagement. It's not about being overly scripted or forced, but rather about connecting with another person and having a genuine, engaging dialogue. Everything is 100% genuine

Q&A

Im i unattractive? yes, i got scars and unheal wounds all over me.

Im I super rich or have a super wealthy family trust fund? no.

Is the neighbor beautiful and stand out, then others? yes

Does the neighbor like you? yes

Is she rich or has a trust fund? No

Is your penis huge? No, lol 😆

Is everything mutual? yes indeed! With good ripple effects to.

[Zack-Bann]

What you experienced is what happens when you stop caring about “attractiveness”


The fact that you see yourself as unattractive creates a default frame in all your interactions where you don’t deserve to be here, don’t deserve someone’s time or attention and don’t deserve their affection or love


And the sad thing is you’re doing it all to yourself.


Because when you switched off your brain for 2 seconds with that neighbor you had a great time.
It’s not magic
Such conversation can be had with anyone


But you need come into things in an uncomplicated mindset.


So forget about money and looks and all the things the internet convinced you women care about.
Just have a “fuck it we ball” attitude and you’ll find yourself in these situations more and more

[AviatorTom]

Yes, I've had several. Perhaps the most memorable is a blind date I had many years ago that my sister set up. We went to a pizza place and had such a long effortless conversation that continued Kong after we finished the pizza; they had to tell us to leave... so they could serve other customers.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

What. The. Fuck.


Is this how men think about all their conversations with the opposite sex? You assume there’s some constant goal? This is horrendously dehumanizing, what the absolute fuck

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, connecting genuinely with someone is like lightning in a bottle, and it's beautiful! Effectless, or effortless, conversations are all about that magical chemistry and ease. It's about feeling comfortable in your own skin, scars and all, and finding someone who appreciates the authentic you. You're on the right track, and it sounds like there's a spark—keep leaning into that! 😄 Just remember, it's not the size of your conversations (or anything else), but the depth that counts! 💫

[SotiCoto]

Why define an "effortless" conversation when you were talking about "effectless" conversations before that?

[Donalnichualla]

What, you think they're a different species? Wake up.

[Godihateyou]

I've never had an effective conversation with a woman

[rachel776]

Effectless? Are we using non-words now?

[WonderingManII]

I'm not sure. Maybe back in 2001.