Search Results: he said he hates me

Should you always let guys initiate contact and take the lead in the early dating stages?

I’m always nervous about the early dating stages when you have both said you like each other or there and there abouts … you know there is something there but then I get nervous initiating sending s text asking if we...

Finfin1981

Xper 5 Age: 45

My boyfriend sometimes takes cocaine?

When he goes out with his friends he takes it he is honest about it and tells me he did it. Im totally against it, i hate it. He said he takes it maybe 1 or 2 times a month when he goes out with them. Said he makes no...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does my coworker hate me if he says stuff like, "we banter like an old married couple" and "we wouldn't do well as a couple"?

I have a coworker who is known for being sarcastic which annoys me because he likes to tease me and I never know if he's actually serious or not when he says weird stuff like this. People at work thinks he likes me but...

Thisgirliscool

Xper 4 Age: 32

Should I risk making it awkward?

So me my friend (I'll call her Lyra) and her friend (I'll call her Rebecca) all frequent this lounge/club (dance club) every week. I think Rebecca is extremely attractive and have said as much to Lyra and some others that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Hot and cold behavior, hiding a relationship, and how to make sense of a girl who seems depressed?

A girl gave strong indications of being interested. Asked her out and she said yes. Then found out she was hiding a relationship. I was honest about my feelings for her and the confusion. Since then, its been awkward and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Honestly can our gender be worse bullies than guys?

The same girl in my HS hates me for the longest. We're now HS seniors. Ever since 7th grade, she would start with her rude remarks, spread false rumors, ridicule me in the class and her group of friends would isolate me....

Anonymous

(18-24)

The same girl in my HS hates me for the longest. We're now HS seniors. Ever since 7th grade, she would start with her rude remarks, spread false rumors, ridicule me in the class and

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Im embarrassed to tell my new guy who my ex is but he wants to know. What do I do?

I really like the guy I'm dating rn. It's getting serious pretty fast. He told me that he would be open to making things official but it bothered him that I withheld information when he asked me who my ex boyfriend was. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I let my boyfriend stay with his ex best friend as well as ex? Am I being insecure?

My boyfriend is going to meet his best friend who is his ex and was his best friend, during their teenage. She liked him and proposed to him first. He reject, slowly then he caught feelings and proposed to her. They got...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why would a girl go back to a guy who was sexually manipulating her and beg to go back even after he was in another relationship?

But a guy who didn’t do anything that he did such as myself and for standing my ground and not being a complete doormat would she end the relationship. If she didn’t get her way she would just automatically end the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend takes drugs, he promised to stop?

He has addiction to crack He said 2 weekes ago he doesn't want to smoke it anymore But this weekend he ignored my messages for 2 days I know when he smokes is when he doesn't talk to me He was online yesterday and today...

MeridianalStar

Xper 2 Age: 25

Girl attempting to make me jealous? Why? Immature? Insecurity?

So I see this girl at the gym a lot, we often catch each others gaze mostly across the room, a few times now she stared at me very intensely, almost like she is hungry. However, I have never approached her because I feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it sad I preferred the toxic relationship over being lonely?

Like my sister hated my ex girlfriend she said she was the worst thing that happened to me. My ex girlfriend was verbally and physically abusive but she was also my first girlfriend I never had a girlfriend before her. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I hurt myself, how long do you think it’ll take to heal? Give your opinion on what I did?

I am a cutter I have been for years. I was raised in an abusive household till the age of 18. There was abuse, drug abuse, alcohol as minors, sexual abuse as well as physical mental and emotional. All done to me by my...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why would a girl hide she is "kinda seeing someone" and say yes to a date with me?

Asked girl out and she said yes. Two days later, she got weird and asked if I was serving that night (I'm a waiter and she works there as well). Never asked before. Said she was getting dinner that night. Didn't say with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Does it sound like she's jealous of me?

My mom said she didn't think i could get a job and go to college because she thought i was slow. Like who says something like this? Then she would say "oh i didn't mean it in that way. You acted crazy as a kid all the way...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Anxious-Preoccupied Guys and Taking it Slow?

Basically, the nervousness I have sends off vibes that don't match my values or expectations. I hate it so much. I actually want to take things really slow, but it makes people feel that I want it to move fast--which, I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Does he actually like talking to me until I sleep or is he just trying to get with me?

This summer I met a nice guy who doesn't pry too much but will let me talk about stuff and listens when I talk which is a big deal to me because I'm really quiet. We met at a big convention and hung out the whole time and...

deviouspengu

Xper 1 Age: 26

Can anyone help me make sense of a younger confusing girl?

Context: I'm turning 29 soon and she is 20. Its an age gap but I can't help what my heart feels. I formed an ultra strong bond with a girl over the last few weeks and we started talking about how art movies and art itself...

Anonymous

(30-35)