Does it sound like she's jealous of me?

[tempirl2012]

My mom said she didn't think i could get a job and go to college because she thought i was slow. Like who says something like this? Then she would say "oh i didn't mean it in that way. You acted crazy as a kid all the way up till now" . when i was a teenager she accused me of wanting her boyfriend. Because HE was staring at me. Now when i come around her with my shorts on in the summer, she catches an attitude asking me why did i wear my shorts to her house. I also remember when she laughed when my sister baby's father called me a b*** and spit on me. I noticed whenever i bought her perfume for her birthday or food for her, she wouldn't wear the perfume and she Would eat a little of the food then throw it away or not eat it at all. Does it sound like my mom hates me?

[Anonymous]

She let your sisters father spit on you and laughed? That's horrible! A year ago my aunt visited our house and I was wearing shorts and a belly shirt, she said I looked like a slut. My parents told her to leave and don't come back. I'd be so hurt if they just laughed at me when she said that. And I didn't look any different than any other teenage girl it was a cute outfit. I'm so sorry she treats you like that she does sound like she's jealous.

[Paris13]

She Sounds Pre Menopausal and Maybe Jealous of At Least Your looks. Resentful for Some reason. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[RedInnocent68]

It sounds like you Mom has issues from how she was raised. Hope fully you can learn from and not repeat her mistakes. Still, she’s your M9m. Try to be kind.

[PrincessBunBuns]

Nah. She doesn’t have to be kind if her mom is an asshole, blood isn’t thicker than water.

[collie22]

She brought into this world you can honor her for that. Just let that stuff go. You could ask Jesus to help.