The guy I'm dating gives weird signals, does it sound like he likes me?

[Anonymous]

we agreed to be friends with benefits because of not wanting something serious. i got feelings at some point but we discussed it he said he did too but not wanting something serious. we do go out on dates and then also just spend all night at my house laughing, and conversations etc.

he said he prefers being at my house because its a better bonding experience, and better than when we are out because im outgoing and i talk to everyone. i decided i am not longer initiating contact - to protect myself- he made sure to initiate contact even when i did that, and when i saw him the other day he brought it up saying i was acting weird and talking to him less. i guess he noticed, but to me its weird he wants me to himself like my full attention and thats why he wants to be inside, and if he doesn't want to be with me not OK.

he also seems to get jealous and will make jabs at me being w other guys... which im not even with. he also usually replies right away and when he can't he is sure to let me know what he was doing etc does it sound like he's confused about his feelings and thats for the mixed signals? not saying he wants to be withme

[YesterdaysChild]

Whenever you get a fuck buddy or friends with benefits there is usually the agreement that it is just for sex and nothing else. Already attached people will also use friends with benefits and fuck buddies as a side hustle. You made the agreement that this was all it was going to be, with no complications or expectations, and no falling in love. He wants to keep that agreement but remain friends. You seemed to have gotten in over your head. Sounds like you want more, but I could be wrong. Either way, you have to get a grip. Either bow out all together or live with the complications. My question is, do you know if he has other interests - married, a girlfriend, a boyfriend, etc?

[DeezGutz]

In the scheme of things it won't matter because he already knew she ain’t for him. She is making herself emotionally unavailable to another guy she puts to the curb as long as she is being the sucker fish.

[YesterdaysChild]

@DeezGutz Agreed!

[Anonymous]

He does not like you he is jealous possessive of you!

That is not dating or a relationship but a man taking advantage while your crushing on him!

Just tell him you like him and see what happens! He might have feelings but right now this is just you suddenly changing and he does not know why?

Tell him you want more only way it will happen

[Asker]

Ohhh i did already, and we both agreed not lookign to be together.

he tells me a lot of the times im out of his league and wa y more ttractive than him... seems insecure and its annoying

[Opinion Owner]

So what do you want now?

[DeezGutz]

He is, he wants to play the game out but gets annoyed if you do it to him.

[DeezGutz]

What I mean is he knows you're lowering your standards.

[Opinion Owner]

@DeezGutz you say the same thing all the time!

[DeezGutz]

The mixed signals in friends with benefits is to keep you on the fishing hook till he is bored and finds a alternative, he already made up his mind when he met you, now its just about using the right bait etc.

Better to naturally invest in someone that benefits you mid/long term.

[DeezGutz]

Because i care someone has to say this, Sincerely you are 30 as a woman do you really have much time left to spend on games? Girl Your clock is coming to a end 90-99% of womens eggs die by 30, you'll need to compete with girls in their 20s for partnerships.

[coachTanthony]

Guys can hang out and sleep with women and even act jealous etc etc but if the guy is super into you and you're the one you'll know it. It's clear he doesn't see you as THE ONE.

[Anonymous]

here's what a gathered. you're friends with benefits. you got feelings and told him. he only said he did too to keep up with the friends with benefits. notice how he said he didn't want anything serious. he subtly said, no we're staying friends with benefits. stringing you along. he prefers to be at your house rather than out. very suspicious. i bet you have sex more times than you go out on a date.

I don't know i really think you need to act more your age. communicate more. tell him why you stop initiating. it's all such a mind game, a mind game i haven't played since i was a teenager. come on.

again, he is acting like this to lead you on. it's a power move. a controlling move. just move on from him.

[sheikalana]

That's why I do not agree with friends with benefits relationships. At some point sooner or later one side or even both sides will eventually catch feelings.

Your relationship is likely not going anywhere. He wants to have a part time girlfriend. Wants to have all the benefits a boyfriend would have without committing. It's deceiving because he seems interested but it's actually not otherwise he would've made things official and exclusive. That's the harsh truth.

[Anonymous]

I’m confused. Are you friends with benefits, casually dating, or seeking a serious relationship? It doesn’t seem like you know so there are undefined boundaries. Best to decide what you are/want first, discern if that perspective is mutual, and then have a discussion about all these things.

[love_conquers_lust]

friends with benefits. He likes your pussy. That’s all you got.

[KrakenAttackin]

He lured you into being a fuck buddy. Good for him.