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I opened my account July 2019, and was often active on the site until the notification system broke down, and even after repeated efforts from me sending them information about the issues I have been having for an entire year now, they were unable to fix them.

Then the edit feature broke, so I, as an Editor, no longer had the 48-hr grace period to edit my MyTakes. I earned that, by writing dozens of MyTakes, which I put a significant amount of work into, to create high-quality content, and discuss some challenging topics with fellow users here.

Then they asked me to be a Moderator beginning of Dec. 2022, a time when I am not actively on the site much. I received a threatening PM saying that I would be cut if I didn't get actively removing comments, etc. Which I then did, but with the f'ed up, opaque, stupid programming and scoring system, a few weeks later, I was cut without any information. It's got so many holes and inconsistencies, it also needs an overhaul.

I notice bugs on the site all the time, which are never fixed.

So, here's a post - some content for you - fix the damn tech.

I'm asking anonymously because I don't want him or others on FB to find my question here. He only spoke to me once way back in 2009 or 2010 and requested me on FB. Then by 2018 or 2019, as a way to get over him (he was married at the time; now it seems they've gotten separated or divorced), I unfriended him. I felt bad though but did it. This is the same guy I've admired since 7th grade and he was in 8th grade. He must now be like 38 years old and is a doctor. Nope, I never got over him after all these years.

Then recently just last Friday, I reconnected with him. This time I reached out to him and he's back on my FB list. This is how the brief conversation went:

Me: Hi

Him: Hi!! How are you!!

Me: Good here. I accidentally took you off the list so I sent you a request. Nice picture.

Him: It's ok You in Florida or Peru?

Me: Lima, Peru

Him: Great to hear from you I want to go!! I almost went last year. I love Peruvian food.

Me: Great. Just let me know in advance if you come. It's great hearing from you too. Well heading back to work. Can you add me.

Him: Just did. Take care!

Guys what would you think if you were him? Did I make it obvious? Would you've noticed it?