When you show care, understanding and some nurturing to a broken hearted guy friend, chooses another a person to love ( I confess I thought I had a chance with him).
I met this guy, who had a lot of baggage from his previous relationship, but over the time we knew each other, he changed drastically in terms of his views about the world.
He seemed always interested in what I have to say, and keen to always include me in any conversation. He was so intrigued by my world given we are both very different and he even at one stage described me as an intense person given how he gets surprised by the things I know or do in life.
He changed from a guy who was hating to be in a relationship to someone who decided to start a relationship with someone new.
I am asking, whether anyone had a similar experience where they managed to heal a broken hearted person unintentionally and at the same time slipped from their hands.
I can't say that I am sad that he is with someone new, but his ambivalence about where he stand with me or his constant eagerness to catch up on a regular basis despite having a partner, is making me question few things about his behaviours.
Sorry about the long post, I am just ranting 😂
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You decided to take the play as a good friend that lends emotional support thinking it qould make him fall for you did u ever actually tell him how u felt?
Thanks for the reply. Actually he was the first to show interest in me way before I thoughts of him as more than a friend, which was only in the last few months.
I haven’t told him anything as I don’t want to disturb his relationship nor wants to make it awkward between us..
Thats my point thobwhy would he have chosen u over this other girl before ifbhe didn't know how u felt