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Search Results: red flags
Does my Ex-boyfriend have regrets?
I broke up with my ex-boyfriend back in January, we were thinking about marriage. I saw some red flags that I had to breakup with him for. We go to the same church every Sunday. I was super dressed up for my birthday. For...
Joyus123
Xper 3 Age: 33 Can a breakup ruin you for good? How one can cope with that kind of pain?
A little context. It's been almost 6 months since I broke up with my boyfriend! We've been together for a little over a year, and I was totally head over heels with him. He was funny, attentive, always keeping me on my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it ok for me to explain to a guy why I won't introduce him to my friends or will that scare him off?
So, I'm talking to this guy and we went out the other day. When we went out he brought up about who did I tell about us hanging out I said just my mom and my one friend from camp. He said he told his mom and his friends....
CAPLOVE
Xper 5 Age: 19 Guys, Why does he only want me to want him but flirt with pretty much everyone else?
I‘m not that bad looking and definitely not worse looking than his past crushes. Also he doesn’t know me well enough to know my red flags and character traits but he rejects me and then tries to keep an eye on me for...
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(25-29) Boyfriend made a joke about swapping partners with a new friend of mine. Is this a red flag?
I talked to my boyfriend of 1 month about meeting with a new friend and her boyfriend to go climbing next week. I suggested that he come too so I won't be the third wheel. He agreed and then said he could try taking away...
Anonymous
(30-35) This lady I'm dating bosses people around, is that a red flag?
I've noticed she'll boss people around, she comes from a wealthy family and has people who will take it because of her money. She even bossed a waiter around on my behalf at a restaurant, she buys me clothes and expects...
Anonymous
(30-35) What are red flags you shouldn’t ignore when you start dating a girl?
I had one that was a first indicator but didn’t understand it in the moment. She had to make a decision and she said her family’s opinion mattered and my voice really didn’t mean anything in it.
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal to go on vacations with only guy friend and I?
Lately, guy friend and I went to a beach resort with just the two of us. It was really intimate emotionally. I cried, he consoled me and we just talk about our lives in the past, what we are afraid of, where we want to...
Ofoceansbeaches
Xper 5 Age: 32 Is this a red flag?
I went on a second date with a guy. We got along well on the first date and hugged a lot and also very long but didn’t kiss. On the second date he constantly put his hand on my knee and I told him that it makes me feel...
Anonymous
(30-35) Understanding Workplace Politics
This is the first part in a new series of Takes I will be posting about the employment world. A lot of what I’m covering is just too long for one post, so I will be going over them in individual parts. Although everyone...
Is it a red flag if a girl has a hot guy best friend she texts with every day?
I have a guy friend that lives in my neighborhood. We met through tinder but nothing sexual ever happened between us since I never saw him that way even though he is super hot and adorable. We text everyday and talk about...
Anonymous
(25-29) Love or obsession?
My brother’s has been with his fiancé for three years and in the space of three years he noticed a lot of red flags about her from disrespecting my parents to being there when her family members talked shit about him and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Man stalks me for years, then is flakey when we finally get in touch again?
I dated a guy who was an fboy 4 years ago before I got into a serious relationship with my ex. He was really avoidant and getting over his ex, so I assumed he didn't like me. When I'd met my ex, I let him know that I had...
helpha
Yoda Age: 31 If a guy ask can we text before engaging in conversation, is that a red flag?
I already know him but we haven’t talked in a while
Anonymous
(18-24) Is it odd and a red flag if your partner says he treated all of his exes differently when he was with them?
I don't know.. to me it's odd. I treated all of my exes the same when I was with them. I treated every boyfriend with love and care... lol. I dont know if this man is telling me he has multiple personalities.. I dont know...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you think of this sentence- "I would hate for someone else to have you"?
I don't like it tbh. If someone said this I would consider it a red flag, but I'm curious about what you guys think. What would you think if someone said this to you?
Lily02
Xper 2 Age: 22 This guy (M24) changed his hinge location and prompt while in a talking stage with me (F20)?
So i’ve been seeing this guy, we went on 3 dates now. We had crazy chemistry, had lovely conversations and even get intimate, he even invited me to join him and his friends for dinner on 3rd date so they basically know we...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is the most unattractive decorations to see when entering the opposite sex's apartment/room?
For me personally whenever I see Wicca or astrology type decorations like crystals and shit that's a red flag and bells go off in my head. I've heard the female equivalent is seeing a man's room be filled with red pill...
MikeyObrien
Xper 5 Age: 26 Is it a red flag if your bf’s mom tells him to please never break your heart?
I mean my boyfriend is not the player type but im a big short girl and he’s a tall skinny guy.
ISFPCaramelPrincess
Xper 4 Age: 24 