Is it a red flag if a girl has a hot guy best friend she texts with every day?

[Anonymous]

I have a guy friend that lives in my neighborhood. We met through tinder but nothing sexual ever happened between us since I never saw him that way even though he is super hot and adorable. We text everyday and talk about the most intimate things including relationships and sex and he oftentimes declared his feelings for me even when he was dating other women. Would you shy away from approaching a girl that has such a guy friend because it is a red flag? If yes, what exactly are you afraid of if nothing has ever happened between them for years?

Red flag

Not red flag

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[DaisyM23]

it's not a red flag to be friends with guys obviously, but it's some kind of flag that he's got feelings for you and i don't think many people would be comfortable with that even if you don't have any feelings

[Paris13]

Maybe h]He is Afraid You Both Will Lose the Great thing You Have... For Now. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks, Gag. xxoo

[Kaneki05]

Not really if anything was going to happen it would have happened already.

[In_Trance]

Dealbreaker

[Asker]

But we are really just friends 😂

[Shy_Steve]

If your texting another Guy you cannot expect him to be okay with it just because he likes you.

Would you be okay with him texting another Girl? More than likely you wouldn't and nor should you be okay with it, If you want to be in a Relationship with him you have to start caring about how he feels about things.

[TerrySilver]

Definitely a red flag, and a no no.

If she had respect for the boyfriend, she'd wouldn't do that, and have him wondering, by being that close to another guy.

To text on the odd occasion is one thing. But regularly is different.

[tierrlamé]

I have a female friend and we would NEVER do anything nasty the thought makes me puke. I love her like a sister but thats it.

[Nikki1989]

Secure people would have no issues with it.

[laly520]

whats her intentions? good or bad?

[Asker]

Intentions with whom?

[laly520]

with her best friend

[Asker]

She just likes him like a little brother

[laly520]

then its not red flag ig