Is it a red flag that a girl I'm talking to lives with her best friend who's a guy and also has slept with this guy?

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So this girl I've been talking to everything is becoming very serious were basically together but without labels yet early on she told me that she lives with her best friend who's a guy I didn't think much of it but lately I've been thinking more it she has slept with him multiple times but I asked her is there anything that I need to be worried about she said no she doesn't have feelings for him she has been spending so much time with me I believe her but something just doesn't feel right

shades777 · Accepted Answer

Anytime I let a woman stay with me I was fuckkng her, then again they already had an attraction for me and I paid their way so... but I would check out the guy she's with, if dude is fuckable she's fucking him, if he's unfuckable then your safe, for now.

But dude if you have to ask this question your already fucked 😂

megabamse · Accepted Answer

It can be, but it also might not be. One of my best friends is a lady i dated many years ago. But we broke up because there where no good Match romantically, but really good match as friends. Been super good friends ever since, not slept together since we broke up. Don't see the issue of it was like that.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I live with a group of guy friends and have at some point or another had sex with all of them. The only times I have ever cheated on my boyfriends with them has been when there were already problems with our relationship.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily. It’s normal to question it, as it doesn’t happen everyday, but I’d say trust her until she gives you a reason not to. She’s been more honest than she’s had to be, with you already.

IAmAzzurra · Answer

It depends on the person & what you think.  It’s your relationship & nobody should be letting strangers on the internet dicate it, especially when it’s someone only you know.

stepyo99 · Answer

I'd trust your gut. Girls with guy friends are a small red flag. Girls with guy friends who they room and sleep with are a huge flashing red light.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

He's going to be all over that when he gets drunk/horny/it's Tuesday. Tell her you'll get serious after she moves out.

Shamalien · Answer

How can you be sexually exclusive with a girl who is living with a past sex partner? Seems fkd. Not gonna lie that’s how my parents met tho hahaha my dad was NOT a fan of her living situation tho

Miristheiss · Answer

Of course it is. Don't date a girl is this situation. Huge red flag.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Trust your gut Your mind is recognizing subtle clues

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

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Anonymous · Answer

Yeah that's definitely a red flag. It's not a guarantee that there is a problem, but it's a pretty good reason to be concerned.

dudeinohio · Answer

Red flag. Run! No one should be friends with someone they slept with, if they want to. be in a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

uh yes that's a red flag. personally i just couldn't deal with someone like that...

Mangospacho · Answer

That’s not technically a roommate she has. They’re technically just on a break.

Paulalove98 · Answer

Yeah it is a red flag

Spade_01 · Answer

Yeah, a big one.

poetic_pisces · Answer

Trust your gut

Simslover92 · Answer

Yes it is

juene · Answer

🚩🚩🚩

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Yes it is

Pixiebih · Answer

Yeah dude😂😂😂

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Ofcourse

In_Trance · Answer

the reddest of red

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