What does it really mean if a guy has a girl best friend he talks to every day while dating another girl?

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[HollyK21]

So I’ve actually experienced this twice lol both times there ended up being more to the stories of these “friendships”, and both times I found about their pasts without ever being told by the guy until confronted.


Honestly I wouldn’t have even judged their pasts if things seemed purely platonic between them, but it never did. Ultimately those situations ended because I didn’t like feeling prioritized equally to a female “bestie”. Like I don’t wanna get his good news at the same time she does, or if he’s checking in with me throughout the day every day, he’s checking in with her as well. I didn’t like the back and forth texting, or hovering around each other during outings as if I were the 3rd wheel. I needed to feel comfortable/secure in a relationship, and chose to walk away when I stopped feeling those things.

[dragoblack]

It means he has a female best friend. Plenty of women just want to be just friends with guys and there are many guys that just want to be friends with women.
If you want that best friends with romantic benefits life for your relationship, stop with the insecurity, it shows a lack of trust in him.

[FunkyMonkee]

It means he's a got a friend who just happens to be a girl that he's good friends with and his girlfriend isn't threatened by her because she KNOWS that he's in love with HER and the other girl is just a good friend!!

[NBSBhopelessRomantic]

I think the weight would be on how much time he spends talking to both girls, his girlfriend should be his priority. You should also talk it out, say that you are kind of uncomfortable if you are, but dont dictate what he should do.

[Abbycado]

It means she has a guy best friend. 🤦‍♀️

[In_Trance]

Guys and girls can't be friends

[Anonymous]

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